tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-69775237592134253242024-03-13T02:24:27.862-07:00Lessons On The Journey. . .Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-84948713806398654202012-04-29T21:57:00.000-07:002012-04-29T22:17:06.557-07:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b>"Who & What Do We Brag / Boast About?"</b>
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Boasting and Bragging. We all do it. Sometimes, on purpose. At other times, we have done it for so long that we have actually perfected a ‘spiritual air’ about it – trying to “sound humble” in the process when in reality we are doing nothing but “Bragging and Boasting” about our own accomplishments for the Kingdom of God. Oftentimes, we accomplish those ‘successes’ by taking the same principles found in business and are used ‘in the world system’ and simply redressing them so they will now fit in the ‘religious realm’ in which we operate.
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Need some examples? They are numerous in the land of Christendom – here are just two. Monthly or Yearly ‘brag sheets’ regarding the amount of money we have given (with how much, where and to whom it has been dispersed), the number of “souls” we have baptized and/or ‘led to the Lord’, the numbers we have ‘run’ in various services, the list goes on add nausea. Or the hushed and ‘unspoken’ belief we so often embrace, exalt, and promote is, the ‘bigger the numbers’, the more ‘successful we are’ for God’s glory (whatever the particular form of ministry may take), and in doing so, we fail to realize just how unbiblical our thinking is. We fail to look inwardly, deep within our souls to discover our true motives of ‘why’ we are actually doing what we are doing ‘for God.’ Perhaps, most of the time, deceiving ourselves.
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It continues on from there. Look at the average ministry webpage or newsletter, etc. and you will find the following. ‘Jesus’ almost becomes a by-word that is ‘tacked on’ here-and-there. We have this driving need for people to know WHAT we are doing for Jesus, and to make sure others know ‘WHY’ we are doing it, and how ‘God is blessing our particular ministry.’ However, upon taking a closer look we will notice that within those presentations, that that particular ministry, or those who are in leadership position, that we often find ‘their’ names outnumbering the mention of Jesus at least “five times-or-more to one”. It’s almost as if we feel a necessity that people must know ‘what God is accomplishing is directly related to them’ so that people will continue to support the ministry financially so they can continue their work for God, as well as expand it.
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Now, don’t misunderstand my words. This is not a spiritual indictment on ‘larger’ ministries. The same structure, mindset and thought process can be seen in, what we would deem, “smaller congregations or ministries” as well as ‘large’ (depending on the relevance of the number we choose to ascribe to it.) And it is characteristic of both ‘big and small’, infecting both those ‘in the pews’, ‘behind the pulpit, and ‘leading a ministry’. It is a spiritual cancer in our souls that needs to be eradicated so that the true glory of Christ can really shine through us the way He desires.<br />
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For some reason, somewhere along the way; in adopting the ‘methods of modern-day ministry’ we seem to have embraced the mindset that we are really ‘nothing’ to God or His Kingdom unless others know it. For some reason we find the need that we have to ‘prove to others’ our level or spirituality, worth, or accomplishments ‘in the name of Christ and for our God’. We included in that thinking also, that, ‘the more we do’, the ‘more successful we are for God’s Kingdom’; the more we ‘do’, then the more pleased He is with us, the more important we are to His Kingdom. And therefore (whether it be conscious or unconscious) the better we are known in the spiritual circle in which we run, then not only do we have a bigger chance of making an impression for God in this world (among the brethren), but the more ‘spiritually self-important’ we feel, thus as if we were making God a respecter of persons.<br />
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So what is our problem and how did we end up here? What brought us to this precipice? Why is it our ministries seem 100 miles wide and only an inch deep? I believe it is one of ‘identity’. Of our failing to realize who we really are in Christ.<br />
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In his book, <i>Look! The finished work of Jesus<b></b></i>, Mike Mooney states the following, <i>“It is easy for us to think it is a noble and good thing to boast in our zeal for Jesus, but the Holy Spirit shows us that what we might really be doing is actually boasting in our own greatness. Boasting in how much we love Jesus comes out of being ‘self-focused’ in our faith.</i><br />
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[Note: It was John Maxwell who said, <i>“If you have to tell someone that you are the leader, you are probably not one.”</i> Carry that over into the spiritual realm, if we have to ‘tell people’ how ‘spiritual we are’, then we probably <i>aren’t</i>. If we have to tell people how much we love Christ, then we probably <i>don’t</i>. If we have to ‘brag or boast’ about all we do for Him, it is probably <i>not</i> truly for His glory.<br />
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In the Amplified Bible, in 1 Corinthians 8:3, we find these words, <i>“But if one loves God truly [with affectionate reverence, prompt obedience, and grateful recognition of His blessing], he is known by God [recognized as worthy of His intimacy and love, and he is owned by Him].”</i> To me, it seems that you would think that a person who walks passionately and intimately with a loving Abba Father would not need to ‘boast’ in anything, but Him.
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Mike goes on to say, <i>“It is when we turn our eyes upon Jesus and become ‘Christ-focused’ that we begin to stop boasting in our love for Him, and start to boast in His love for us! As Christians, we need to recognize our boast is not meant to be in how much we love Jesus, but in how much He loves us. Similarly, our focus should not be in how much we doing for Jesus, but in how much He has done for us.” </i><b>[Emphasis mine]</b> What tremendous words.
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He continues, <i>“Why would you want your relationship with Jesus to be based on how much you love (and serve) Him? If the relationship is built on the foundation of your love (and service), then it is broken every time you fail to love (and serve) Him perfectly. However if your relationship is based on how much Jesus loves you, as it actually is, then your relationship with Him is never broken because although you may fail the Lord, He will never fail you. This is the true foundation God wants you to build your relationship with Jesus upon. It is one that will allow you to walk in the blessing of full assurance of faith, because it is based on the perfect love of Christ.
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It is to here that I have been brought. I, along with so many others, failed to realize it is <i>not</i> about me. It is <i>ALL</i> about Jesus. Our life, our essence, our ministry, our testimony, the very breath we breathe, every beat of our hearts, who we are, what we do or don’t do, our very essence and purpose is all IN Christ and BECAUSE OF the magnificence and Person of Jesus Christ. It is HIS supremacy. HE is Lord. It is HIS love. It is HIS mercy and grace. It is ALL because of HIM and HIM ALONE. It is not how much I love Him, but how much He loves me. It is not about my service to Him or trying to please or appease Him, but rather my standing and perfection IN HIM. He is my all-in-all, because He Is.
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Now, if we are not careful, we will miss it. We will stay ‘busy’ for Him, embracing the so-called, self-centered focus, religious so-called Christianity that has been pawned off on us leaving us frustrated, burnt out, dissatisfied, discouraged, and tired. All because the ‘strength’ of our “trying to live the Christian life” has been fueled by ourselves in ‘the name of Christ’ but doing so with ourselves as the center and focus and just ‘tacking Christ on’ in the process. Religion can do that, you know.
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I believe that one of the most freeing moments in the Christian life is when we come to the realization that we don’t have to ‘burn out for God’. That we don’t have to ‘manufacture’ working for Him somehow subconsciously, ‘proving our worth’ to God, but when we learn to truly begin to understand, as Paul said in Ephesians 3, the “height and width and length and depth of the love of God” that He pours continuously out upon us and in us, and as we truly learn to embrace, rest in, and bask in His unconditional love for us, the pressure is removed, the feelings of wondering if we have ‘done enough for The Master’ will finally subside and we then the Holy Spirit will produce His fruit in and through us, out of a relationship with God that He planned and desires. Or as Mike states again in his book, “When you allow yourself to rest at the feet of Jesus and enjoy His company, you will always end up outworking God’s will in your life because the Spirit is free to move in you as He desires. And as we trust in Him, He does all of the work in and through us and He gets ALL the credit.”
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In <i>John 6</i> Jesus is asked, what is the one THING, the one WORK that we can do that God requires of us and that will please Him? Ask most ministries or religious institutions, and the list(s) you will receive will vary in both number and description. And most of the time those lists will have a ‘bent’ toward the vision and goals of that particular institution or ministry (all in the ‘name of God’, of course). But what is THE work that God wants? The answer may surprise us. And He doesn’t leave us ‘clueless’. It is found in <i>verse 29</i>, Jesus answered, <i>“The work of God is this, to believe in The One He has sent.” And that One, is Jesus Christ</i>.
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expected to hear (nor probably wanted to). It flies in the face of most of what is being presented out there on ‘how to please and work for God.’ [The principles are endless.] However, when our spirit truly rests in His grace; when we truly believe in Him; as we fix our gaze upon Jesus, (as <i>Hebrews 12:2</i> states, <i>“Looking unto, fixing our gaze/eyes upon, intently beholding Him, who is the Author and Finisher of our faith…” </i>When we truly do so, that is when the Holy Spirit will produce His work and fruit in us. Paul said it best when he spoke these words; <i>“It is no longer I who lives, but Christ who lives in me.”</i>(Galatians 2:20)
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Again, I quote Mike Mooney, <i>“We can sometimes fool ourselves into believing Jesus expects so much from us, when He only asks us to do one thing – believe. If you do this one thing right, Christ in you will do everything else right on your behalf. You will be filled with the fruit of the Spirit, he will accomplish good works in you, and you will be able to give all the credit to Jesus.”
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Now, think about what we have discussed and let’s compare that thought process with the two sisters mentioned in <i>Luke 10 </i>- Mary and Martha. Martha, the one working excessively, sacrificially, and tirelessly for the Lord’ – we find her complaining about Mary’s ‘lack of service and commitment level’. We find Martha bragging and boasting about all she had done for and was doing for the Lord (humbly and spiritually of course – in today’s time, she would have reported her service and results to her denomination, or published it in her ministry letter or webpage, so she and others would know just how spiritual she really was). Martha also reminded the Lord ‘how much she was doing for Him, her tireless service and sacrifice. Because of the wrong focus of her heart, Martha could easily criticize Mary. And yet, Jesus lovingly reminds her, “Martha, Martha (speaking to her heart), you are troubled, worried and upset about many things, but Mary has chosen what is far better, and it will never be taken away from her.”
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Listen with me to Mike Mooney, <i>“Don’t fool yourself into thinking Jesus wants you to fill your life up with ‘ministry works’ in order to please Him. He would much rather you simply sit at His feet and trust in Him, like Mary who wanted to see the reality of Jesus.
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Our so-called ‘Christian Religion’ of today has promoted the Martha-mindset for years and produced an army of Marthas. We are reaping what we have sown. Scarily, it has become so deeply ingrained and imbedded in our hearts, minds, souls, and the ‘Christian culture’ of today that we have adopted it as the ‘norm’. But it must be rooted out. As one author said, <i>“Busyness can be (and should never be) a substitute for Intimacy.”</i>
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Listen again to the words of Mike Mooney, <i>"Mary was not trying to be someone great…She was not trying to ‘work for’ Jesus in order to please Him; rather she rested in His presence with joy and thankfulness. Martha thought Mary was simply being lazy, but Jesus explained that Mary was ‘doing’ exactly what God desired. </i>
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<i>“When you allow yourself to rest at the feet of Jesus and enjoy His company, you will always end up outworking God’s will in your life because the Spirit is free to move in you as He desires…As we trust in Him (Christ), He (The Holy Spirit) does all the work in and through us. (Because) we receive all the benefits of a transformed life…we can give Him all of the credit with joyful hearts.</i>
And for me, I have found that that ‘outworking’ of the Spirit of God who indwells me, as I fix my entire gaze and life upon Christ, that His ‘outworking’ is far different than the religious, institutional, traditional, typical, comfortable of what-we-are-used-to, churchy mindset we find as Christians today. And you don’t care if anyone else knows. Why? Because God does and it is ALL about Jesus Christ. I don’t have to ‘prove my spirituality or service to you’. I don’t have to impress you, or for some reason ‘justify myself before you.’ I don’t have to ‘brag or boast’ because it is no longer about me. Am I perfect? Do I no longer make mistakes? Of course not. Positionally I am perfect IN CHRIST. The Holy Spirit shows me how to practically and daily walk that out IN HIM.
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I like the way <i>2 Corinthians 10:17</i> states it, <i>“As the Scriptures say, "If you want to boast, boast only about the LORD.” </i>(NLT) Paul also captured that same truth in 1 Corinthians 15:10 where he states that all that he is, is solely because of Jesus Christ and His grace. Even that which was accomplished through his life was a result of the grace of God operating within him and not something he manufactured himself. Paul’s entire focus was always on and about Jesus Christ.
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Steve McVey states, <i>“Religion complicates and confuses people by its demands and harsh scrutiny of our behavior. The grace of God stands in stark contrast to religion by assuring us that because of the finished work of Jesus, we are not only in good standing with God but are actually cherished by Him. Grace frees us from trying to prove anything to Him, to others, or even to ourselves…There is nothing left for us to do other than live out the reality of His finished work. [Both before and after salvation, Religion will always try to sell you the lie that God wants to relate to you based on your ‘works’, but the Gospel proclaims the truth that God actually desires to relate with you based on the finished work of His Son]. (God desires) to set many people free from the prison of religious performance and usher them into the rest that only comes by living in His grace. </i> Or as Wayne Jacobsen says, it is learning how to <i>“Live loved.”</i>
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So let me ask this question. Who or What are you ‘learning about’? Since, “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks” what is truly in your heart? We can know by asking the question – what is coming out of your mouth? Is it your ‘church’? Your pastor? Your accomplishments? Your Praise Team? Or something else entirely? Your [you fill in the blank’. Who or What do we find ourselves ‘bragging or boasting’ about the most? The answer may both shock and surprise us. But whatever it is, that is the true focus of our hearts and lives. Is our complete focus, fully about and on JESUS?
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One of my favorite passages of Scripture is <i>Matthew 11:28-30</i>. Listen to the very heart of Jesus…
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<i>28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause you to rest. [I will [o]ease and relieve and [p]refresh [q]your souls.]
29Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me, for I am gentle (meek) and humble (lowly) in heart, and you will find rest ([r]relief and ease and refreshment and [s]recreation and blessed quiet) for your souls.
30For My yoke is easy and wholesome (useful, [t]good--not harsh, hard, sharp, or pressing, but comfortable, gracious, and pleasant), and My burden is light and easy to be borne. </i><strong>[Emphasis mine]</strong>
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Let’s ‘look’ to Him. Let us realize that all that we are or ever will be, is all because of Him. Anything done through us is only because of Him and His grace. HE is the Author and Finisher of our faith. He is our everything – it is all because of His love, His finished work, His Person. The ONLY thing in life and in eternity that I will ever have to brag or boast about is no one but Jesus Christ.
Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-87577222795304574012012-03-27T18:08:00.004-07:002012-03-27T18:16:52.716-07:00"Mable"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Dq-nCxQPU0BbAQIwuuVrD0_Ms-VK2qEnprsI5slKmFDxdcY8TEkIj6Xi9zmGlz5lWnBpMyf2zzgqQVFOqgyKdHecfjZSTWTyU8EJ6F2KO-HW20M895WFrE9ZKT87H5_zKkQf2c8L0V4/s1600/Old+Woman+-+2.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 274px; height: 184px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6Dq-nCxQPU0BbAQIwuuVrD0_Ms-VK2qEnprsI5slKmFDxdcY8TEkIj6Xi9zmGlz5lWnBpMyf2zzgqQVFOqgyKdHecfjZSTWTyU8EJ6F2KO-HW20M895WFrE9ZKT87H5_zKkQf2c8L0V4/s320/Old+Woman+-+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5724749540702194290" /></a><br />Mable walked slowly down the aisle, as the rays from the morning sun made their way across the room. “This place sure is dusty, why you can see the dust just floating in those sun beams,” Mable said to herself.<br /><br />As Mable made her way down the aisle, as she had done so many times before, her mind spoke “How long has it been? Well, this old mind doesn’t work like it used to. How many years now? Well, ‘ol girl, Mama started bringing me here, what was it now? Yes, that’s right, ever since I was three years old. This church seemed so big back then. And the memories. Sunday School, Vacation Bible School, all kinds of preachers over the years – some good, some, well, not so good. “Mama used to say, it’s okay Honey, God will bring us somebody better.” I remember how my little hand felt so secure in Mama’s hands. “Lord, it was right here, that I grasped Mama’s hand for that last time. But it was different. I was older, and now her hand was cold and lifeless. Mama wasn’t really here. That’s the last time I saw Mama here on this earth,” Mable thought to herself. <br /><br />As Mable turned, (if someone had been there to see her, they would have noticed, as they always do), those tired, aged hands preciously holding ‘The Book’ close to her heart. Edges cracked and curled, a book whose pages are well known to her, some tear-stained, some worn from where fingers have followed along ever so gently, passionately as she read. “Such good words, loving words,” her voice echoed off the walls. Words that have brought her hope, and comfort in good times and bad throughout these long, yet “Why, it seems so short at times,” years, Mable again spoke out loud. Not to anyone in particular. Unless you listen to people talk. If asked, they would tell you that “It seems like Mable’s been talking a lot to herself lately.” Mable would hear their whispers, bits and pieces of their conversations and simply smile. She knew. Let them think what they want. It seems that some Christian people just don’t understand. After all, Mable knew that she was talking to Someone very dear and special to her, a very personal Friend Who often spoke to her mind and heart.<br /><br />Mable eased herself down into ‘her’ pew. A welcome place. Some will tell you that Mable and her Mama, and her Daddy those last few years of her life, had sat in that same spot, ‘why it seems like forever’, or so they say. He eyes purposefully moved about the room, at times, settling a few moments here, a few moments there, as sweet memories flooded her mind of ‘those special times’ within these old walls.<br /><br />“Lord, I have so many good memories here. I was baptized in that baptistery. It was here in this pew, all those years ago, I began my journey with You, as your Spirit spoke to my heart and soul, and You poured out Your love for me. The love of my Savior. Remember Lord when I got up and walked right down here, to this old altar. And I met You, my precious Jesus. Right here Lord, You became my Savior.” Tears were streaming down Mable’s face, now, but not of sadness but rather from joy. Mable wiped her eyes with her handkerchief when she suddenly found herself in that very spot, kneeling where she had so many years before. “And like I have so many times since, too. Goodness gracious, how did I get from that old pew down to here?” she laughed out loud. “Maybe I am losing my mind. Well if I am, then so be it!”<br /><br />Mable purposefully retraced each step as she made it back to ‘her spot’ in the pew. “These ‘ol bones don’t work like they used to,” she smiled. As the oak creaked beneath her, supporting her weight. And yet, it was almost as if a greater weight sat down with her.<br /><br />Mable was troubled. “Lord,” you know, we have a problem here,” she said.. “There are a lot of new people coming. All kinds from all walks of life. Why we’re bursting at the seams. And I sure do like to see the excitement of all the children.” <br /><br />“But Lord, Your body seems to be divided. There are those here who don’t want to leave this place, this building, it’s almost as if it’s become an idol. But the others aren’t much different. They are looking at the new facility as an end in itself. I guess it bothers me that It seems as we’ve lost our focus. All I hear people talking about is one of the two buildings, or their preference in styles of music, or some other dang thing. Oops, I’m sorry Father. It’s just I don’t know what to do.”<br /><br />As Mable’s heart quieted, a stillness came over her. Almost, as if unseen loving arms embraced her and held her close. It reminded her of the times she used to crawl up in her daddy’s lap and he would wrap his arms around her when she was little. She felt safe and loved there. And the best part was she could see her reflection in the smile and warmth of his eyes. And as she placed her head against his chest she would hear and feel his heartbeat. Mable knew this moment. One that she daily came to cherish, of being in her Heavenly Father’s lap and feeling His loving embrace.<br /><br />“Mable”, said The Voice. <br /><br />“Yes, my Lord,” Mable responded<br /><br />“Mable, you have realized that the precious times we have spent together, here in this location, are not because of this building, service or programs. My daughter, it is not because of this place, or any place. It is because of a Person, and My agape love.<br /><br />“My children have become confused and deluded by embracing religion over Relationship. For ages now they have built large buildings thinking that they honor Me. Presenting these structures to My creation as if this is where I dwell, and that these edifices somehow represent Me. And yet, My Son said, “No longer does God dwell in buildings made with hands. For you now are My temple and the place where I dwell. My children worship their buildings, visions, and goals just as Israel worshiped the serpent, that My servant Moses lifted up in the wilderness. Their ‘religious rituals, objects, and expectations’ have replaced Me. <br /><br /><br />“My people attend programs, conferences, and numerous Bible studies believing this makes them more spiritual and better disciples. And yet My Son has told you, “By this will all people know you are My disciples, if you love one another, just as I have loved you.”<br /><br />“Mable, out of the abundance of their heart they speak. I AM no longer on their lips because I AM no longer truly in their hearts. Even in this fellowship that you attend, listen to what is most important to them. What excites them is shown by what they talk about. Everything is substituted for Me. Just as a small child cares more about their gifts and toys than the parent who gave it to them.<br />They are blinded and do not know it. They are zealous and say they embrace the truth, when The Truth is My Son. They have unknowingly left the passion of their first love.”<br /><br />“I know Lord. I was that way for so many years. Until You broke through my ‘Christian Religiosity’ and broke the crust of this old religious heart and soul and brought me back to Your loving heart and arms,” Mable said as tears streamed down her face. Overwhelmed by The Voice that enveloped her. <br /><br />“Mable,” The Voice responded, “Even through those times, I was always there. My love for you has never diminished or changed. I just had to woo you back to Me. To open your eyes and heart so you would stop performing for Me out your desire to please Me, thinking you could earn My favor and love - Instead of just living loved. To responding to my love, voice, and heart. You have always been in my embrace and arms, always close to My heart, and always will be. I just had to remove the religious garbage in your life in order for you to see Me again.”<br /><br />“Lord, I am so unworthy. Why me?”<br /><br />“Mable, I AM no respecter of persons. This relationship with Me is for all. For some, the control of religion has a very strong hold on their lives. Sadly some have chosen ‘Doing Church’ over their ‘Being My Child’. For some, it takes a while to break through the religious facade so they can see My face again,” The Voice said.<br /><br />“Lord, what am I to do?” Mable asked.<br /><br />“Continue in My love. And as My Spirit nudges your heart, share the awesomeness of My love with them. Allow Me to break through those barriers, and you just abide in My love – let them see the difference of the joy of walking with Abba Father over the hollowness of performing religious duties and obligations.”<br /><br />“But, Lord, what if they won’t listen?” Mable asked.<br /><br />“Lives are touched and changed, one at a time. Just as on the cross, I was in Christ reconciling the world to Myself. I am still continuing to do so today. Religion will never change anyone, but My love will.”<br /><br />“I love You, Lord,” Mable spoke from the very depths of her soul and heart.<br /><br />“I know My child. And Mable, I have and will always love you. I look for the time we can be together.”<br /><br />A single tear fell down Mable’s face on to her Bible. “I don’t think that will be much longer, Father,” she said. “I look forward to it, too” <br /><br />Overwhelmed, Mable sat there for a few more moments. The light was lower now coming through the windows. Mable began to gather her things and as she started to rise, she heard a creaking sound behind her. She turned her head to see the old wooden church door open and someone cautiously stick her head in.<br /><br />“Mrs. Mable, is that you?” A petite young mother asked as she made her way down the church aisle, with a small child holding onto her hand, rubbing her nose.<br /><br />“What is it dear?” Mable asked. “Sit down.”<br /><br />The young mother sat down pulling the little girl on to her lap. “Mable, you know I’ve been coming here for some time now. I grew up in this church. Got married here. Trusted Christ here. I know I’m God’s child.<br /><br />The young mother’s shoulders quietly slumped as if burdened with a heavy load while a tear trickled down her face. “I’m so tired. You know our family faithfully attends here we are so busy and involved. Children’s Church, Sunday School, Men’s Meetings, Ladies’ Meetings, Conferences, Services three days a week, witnessing, Praise Team Practice and Worship, Doctrine and Membership Classes. It seems like the list goes on-and-on. I don’t want God mad with me. I’m almost afraid to say this. But we are so busy doing things for God, I feel like I’m missing Him. I have no time with Him anymore. Is it supposed to be like this? Sometimes I just want to scream. The pastor says it is. After all, ‘Serving God is serving His Church.’ he says. But when it’s all said and done, we go home exhausted. And we’re so busy, it seems most of the time we feel empty. And sometimes we don’t even want to come. There is no rest. God sometimes seems like such a taskmaster. Is there no hope? And on top of everything else, we’re supposed to move into the new building in a few months. Now we’re being told there are more planning meetings, and…” the young mother’s voice trailed off.<br /><br />“Mable, something is different about you. There seems to be such a peace, almost glow about you. What is different about your life?” the mother pleadingly asked.<br /><br />As Mable sat there, she felt that well-known familiar Nudge in her heart and smiled. And with one hand on her Bible, she placed her other hand ever so gently on the young mother’s shoulder. Wiping the tear from the young mother’s eye, she looked at her, and said, “Honey, let me share with you about the awesomeness of God’s wonderful love”Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-19034400378284529312011-04-21T19:39:00.001-07:002011-04-21T19:41:19.612-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk7Q_5RNMTwBvwKyZQyD0rc81TT7lOZZo8By5AMFfP8E68MRgCa6n4jHHOEwnkQLfATs1mY8r6fV13F317VM0Mw2UlsoLNYRLp9Jppo61KP4sSf171Trxkq2U3K_7uCjkvjEyr_-vUN9E/s1600/Be+Careful+Who+You+Listen+To+-+1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 192px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk7Q_5RNMTwBvwKyZQyD0rc81TT7lOZZo8By5AMFfP8E68MRgCa6n4jHHOEwnkQLfATs1mY8r6fV13F317VM0Mw2UlsoLNYRLp9Jppo61KP4sSf171Trxkq2U3K_7uCjkvjEyr_-vUN9E/s200/Be+Careful+Who+You+Listen+To+-+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5598232481859313618" /></a><br /><span xmlns=''><p><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:16pt'>Be Careful WHO You Listen To!<br /></span></p><p><br /> </p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>Quick fixes – Instant Answers – Microwave mentality. It seems that Christians have the same problem that non-Christians do when it comes to seeking advice and wanting answers to their very real problems. But the real problem becomes worse and the danger can become more serious when we fail to use WISDOM in making right choices - especially when those choices involve '<strong>WHO' we listen to and take council from</strong>. And it compounds when we begin to solely rely on others to <em>'hear from God for us'</em> instead of 'hearing God's voice' and seeking His council' <em>ourselves, </em>when we listen to everybody else, <strong>BUT HIM</strong>.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>One way to help us in making wise choices is found in the Scripture when it tells us in Proverbs 11:14; <em><strong>"Where there is no counsel (guidance, wise leadership), the people (nation) fall; But in the multitude (abundance of, many) counselors there is safety (victory)."</strong><br /> </em>Notice the EMPHASIS, <em>'abundance of, many, multitude of counsel, wise leadership, guidance', </em>NEVER in just 'one' person. No matter how POPULAR that person may be, or even how they may have just EMOTIONALLY STIRRED OUR SOULS with their PRESENTATION, PROGRAM, PRESENCE or POWER. Always in a <em>multitude (abundance of, many) wise counselors</em><br /> </span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>HOWEVER… Sadly today there seem to be more-and-more individuals who are involved in ministries who honestly believe that because of their particular POSITION, TITLE, MINISTRY, EXPERIENCE or SUCCESS that this somehow <strong>qualifies them</strong> with 'supernatural wisdom' in 'giving any and all' the advice they need on <strong><em>ANY</em></strong> and <strong><em>ALL</em></strong> subjects. And the scary thing is People Blindly Follow them and Unquestionably Listen!!!<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>Now, no Physician is an 'expert' in every aspect of the entire vast field of medicine. No one who holds a 'Doctorate' knows 'all there is to know' (though both of the above may be more than proficient in their respective fields). No TEACHER can teach every subject. No QUARTERBACK can win an entire game by himself. And certainly just because someone is an ACTOR means they have a 'qualifier' which makes them wise in 'all other areas' of government or environment – maybe socialism, but that is another article… <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>Also, on a more personal level. I am a Critical Care Paramedic and have served our Lord in the area of Emergency Medicine for over 30 years. There <em>ARE </em>A LOT of things I can do in the pre-hospital environment in saving lives that even nurses and some doctors cannot do. Things that blow a lot of people's minds. The list and qualifications may impress or inspire even you. And, as a Faculty Member for The American Heart Association® I instruct and certify Doctors, PAs, RNs, Respiratory Therapists, Paramedics, EMTs, First Responders, etc. in the fields of Advanced Cardiac Life Support, Pediatric Advanced Life Support, Basic Life Support, First Aid, as well as in Advanced Medical Life Support and Pre-Hospital Trauma Life Support (just to name a few). But though I am very efficient in many areas, I do <em>NOT </em>know it all <em>NOR </em>would I dare to act or claim such. NOR does it make me more knowledgeable than those I work alongside or instruct. I am simply part of a T.E.A.M. A T.E.A.M. where Together Everyone Accomplishes More' Together, we all provide LIFE-SAVING SKILLS for the best of an individual, or individuals, in our fields when and where we are most needed.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>God also has a T.E.A.M. It is called M.O.W.C. – Multitude of Wise Counselors. At NO TIME does He have an indispensible, all-purpose Solo Act, Star Quarterback, or Super Paramedic who knows it all. The same is true in MINISTRY. (See 1 Corinthians 8:1-3).<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>There are and always will be reoccurring times in our lives when we need support, instruction, guidance and council. Wisdom from others who have been where we are or may have experience and insight for us. People who can <strong>walk alongside us</strong>.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>The PROBLEM occurs when you have that Paramedic/Doctor/Teacher/Pastor/Minister who becomes UNTEACHABLE, or KNOWS IT ALL, who is 'GOD'S GIFT TO (<span style='text-decoration:underline'>you fill in the blank</span>). For some reason that seems to be occurring more and more in the area of 'Christianity'. Those who are MISUSING their position. People who have become 'proficient' in one or two areas and/or have a Type A or charismatic Personality, now take on the mantle that they are 'all-knowing' in all areas of the Christian Life <em>because of</em> (they feel) their POSITION, SUCCESS, PRESENTATION, POWER, or MINISTRY. AND people are enamored by them and will seek them out almost in a cult-like fashion.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 5pt'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>So what do we do? Since no 'ONE PERSON' knows it all or can advise us in all areas, how then do we AVOID by-passing God and His M.O.W.C. T.E.A.M. (Multitude of Wise Counselor Together Everyone Accomplishes More) and stop consistently placing our All-Star Guru of Christianity up on that Proverbial Pedestal of Worship, Adoration, and Unquestionable Loyalty and Information we placed them on? <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>The answer is pretty simple.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>1. Seek your Abba Father's Voice FIRST</strong> Answers don't always come as quick as you may want or be the answers you desire or even be what you want to hear. However, God's wisdom is ALWAYS better. And in the midst of our darkest hour, or in the middle of our desert, sometimes God simply wants us to draw into His presence and shadow, next to His Bramble Bush to rely and rest on Him, to hear HIS voice, to TRUST Him and realize that He will guide and sustain us 'one more day'. Day-by-day, moment-by-moment. The desert is where He may want us to be at this time. The key is to walk WITH HIM and TRUST HIM – He WILL make our path or direction clear.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>2. Don't Just Look For and Embrace People Who Will Always Agree With You</strong>. We're like that. If several people, over a period of time, will give you wise council independently of each other, and most of the time it may be the same, then it might be something to consider. However we MUST realize two things:<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>1<sup>st</sup>. </strong>There <em>MAY</em> be a time that everyone will have the same advice and it still not be God's will for you to do what they say. Your decision will not contradict or compromise God's Word, and yet, He <em>MAY</em> lead you separately from what others may be thinking. Case in point – Paul regarding God's will for him going up to Jerusalem.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>2<sup>nd </sup></strong>Also there may be times you may reject the council of others because it is not what you really want to hear or do. In reality, you've already made up your mind independent of Scripture or The Holy Spirit's speaking to you. You are just looking for someone to confirm and speak into you what you've already decided and what you want to hear with no intention of hearing God's voice on the matter. Only you can be honest enough with yourself to decide if you are in this DANGEROUS position or not.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>3. Be Slow to: (1) Give Advice and (2) Receive Advice.</strong><br /> </span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>First, in giving advice:</strong> Realize that when we 'Give someone our wisdom or answer' in order to try to help them fix their situation, or tell / direct them in their next step may actually be working AGAINST God. You and I may not be fully aware of what God is doing, or trying to do in their life, and many times we usually just hear 'one side' of the story. It's not that we are 'not' to share, but be <em>slow to speak </em>when we do so.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>In fact, personally I have found the more mature, intimate, and Christlike men and women of God become, enjoying His presence, etc., the less quickly they are to even 'give advice'. Often you will hear them respond in ways such as, "<em>What is God telling you? You may just need to wait and hear from Him." </em>[Maybe the reason some of us <strong>don't</strong> do that is because <em>WE</em> want to be THE ONE they obtain the wisdom from, the one they look to and adore as GOD'S MAN or WOMAN for them or 'for the hour', thus usurping God's place in their lives. [As John Maxwell would say, <em>"Just a thought."</em>]<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>Second, in Receiving Advice – BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO! </strong>God instructs us to seek <em>WISE</em> COUNCIL from a <em>VARIETY</em> and MULTITUDE of people. But in our choosing, there are some things we should know and do. For example:<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>AVOID 'Know-it-alls' </strong>Nobody knows everything. The Scripture recounts this numerous times throughout Its pages. Think about the following...<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>If you need FINANCIAL WISDOM, then you should seek wisdom from God's Word and council from someone like, Dave Ramsey or Crown Ministries, <em>NOT </em>from someone who cannot handle their money.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>If you need PARENTING ADVISE you should seek wisdom from God's Word and from someone with a track record of raising godly children. You would certainly <em>NOT </em>seek so-called 'words of wisdom' from someone who has never had nor raised a child of their own. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>If you need help in your MARRIAGE? Again, seek wisdom from His Word and from people who have weathered the storms, honored our Lord, and truly love each other – people with a strong and loving marriage. <em>NOT </em>from a single individual or from those with poor marriages. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>God's WILL – seek wisdom from many people in a variety of areas who have heard His voice and seen His hand. Learn first to follow His REVEALED will, moment-by-moment, then listen to others, and then ask what is He speaking to your heart. Certainly do <em>NOT</em> listen to someone who may receive some type of BENEFIT from what they may "share" with you." <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>LEADERSHIP – Always avoid the council from someone who is worshiped, demands respect, and is constantly <em>being served</em> by others, simply because they lead a large organization, are well known or are popular. Jesus told us how to determine who a <strong>true leader is</strong> – it is <strong>one who SERVES</strong> those working alongside him or her. <em>NOT </em>for show, accolades or recognition, but as John The Baptist said, <em>"He must increase, and I must decrease."</em> Or Jesus when He said, <em>"esteem others better than yourself" </em>plus <em>"he that will be first among you will be last." </em>Needless to say, the list can go on-and-on.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>4. Test Their Words </strong>Is what they are saying <em>really lining up </em>to God's Heart, His Revealed Will and Word? If not, then DON'T listen to them. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>I remember one time a "brother" 'felt led to admonish me' regarding several things 'he just knew' were not in my life, things that he felt were short-comings. His motive? Who knows – maybe it boosted his ego or made him <em>feel </em>superior or more spiritual in doing so. Whatever his reasons, what was interesting is that 'what he shared with me' was WRONG on <span style='text-decoration:underline'><strong><em>ALL</em></strong></span> counts even though he was convinced he was right. Go figure, and yet he said, "The Lord told him these things." It makes me wonder which <em>lord</em> he was listening to? Needless to say his council did not mean very much.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'><strong>5. Watch Their Reactions </strong>This is where <em><span style='text-decoration:underline'>TH</span>E</em> MOST DANGER LIES. If you ever have someone, in any spiritual capacity and one of the following occurs, AVOID THEM LIKE THE PLAGUE. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>If someone ever 'gives you advice' and you <em>not</em> do exactly 'what' they said, or 'how or when' they wanted you to do it? If their response is that they: 'write you off', judge or condemn you, demean you, speak or look down to/on you, talk about you to others, get angry with or are loud and 'in your face', posture around or against you, yell at you, act more spiritual or more holier-than- thou, justify what they are doing by saying they are 'tough loving' you, or you may hear hints and warnings about "others" who 'failed to head their advice and wisdom", make you 'jump through hoops, fill and meet their agendas to be 'truly accepted' by them, if they try to manipulate you or are spiritually abusing you, or even accuse you of 'questioning their authority', then RUN AWAY FROM THEM as fast as you can. DON'T stay there. FLUSH them and their so-called wisdom from your mind, heart and life and simply follow, love and enjoy God and embrace the loving admonishment from His Word which states that…<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: center'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>"…<em>in the multitude (abundance of, many) counselors </em>[e.g. brothers and sisters with no hidden agendas, no hooks, people who truly are Christlike, and will love and admonish you like Christ selflessly]<em> there <strong>is</strong> safety."<br /></em></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><br /> </p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt'>In other words, Love and Enjoy Him and find <em>HIS</em> M.O.W.C. T.E.A.M.<br /></span></p></span>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-54961842842136247542011-04-01T09:43:00.001-07:002011-04-01T09:54:18.709-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQUzG6U82hNFwm1VhgJKL_eYI0_tPceDPLCCauvwpkRNwKMOQ7jb5R-lAjvVysVmDYJMJrnbN1ZebgVMWwhSOBB0hgigdkHZDXVYCc1DtiRyP46Pi2AyBvsVl93_abEVl8PElsoOXs7FQ/s1600/Control+Freaks+-+3.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 277px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5590658838342516114" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQUzG6U82hNFwm1VhgJKL_eYI0_tPceDPLCCauvwpkRNwKMOQ7jb5R-lAjvVysVmDYJMJrnbN1ZebgVMWwhSOBB0hgigdkHZDXVYCc1DtiRyP46Pi2AyBvsVl93_abEVl8PElsoOXs7FQ/s320/Control+Freaks+-+3.jpg" /></a> <span xmlns=""><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:180%;"><strong>Control Freaks - Part 1</strong> </span><br /><div><br /><div><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">We've all experienced <em>them</em> at some point or other in our Christian Walk and Life. People who derive some PLEASURE or SELF-WORTH by FEEDING THEIR OWN SELF-CENTERED and SELF-RIGHTEOUS EGO. People who are often dangerous and twisted in their thinking because they feel it is 'GOD'S CALLING' to 'CONTROL' your life - that God Himself has either spoken to them about you or are convinced that <em>THEY </em>always know 'what is best' for you, which decisions you should or shouldn't make and what you should or should not do. They will tell you (or feel in their own minds) that their 'so-called wisdom' <em>comes from God</em> but in reality it is delusional and is actually based on their Position, Power, Popularity, Proportionate size of their ministry Pharisaical standards and emphasis, or their own Personal self-worth, etc. (Forgive me, I'm still trying to overcome the 'preacher thing' of starting everything with the same letter...:0) </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">And <em>Heaven help you </em>if for some reason you ever QUESTION that individual or FAIL TO HEED THEM (what we mean by that is that if you fail to 'OBEY' them.) Because if and when you don't, they will DEMEAN and BERATE you, THINK LESS of you, WRITE YOU OFF, and perhaps even BREAK FELLOWSHIP and OSTRACIZE you because you dared to fail and ADHERE to their WISDOM and in many situations, the DEMANDS they placed on your life. And you WILL become an EXAMPLE they readily share with others to help in their control, at least will be the object of their DISDAIN and 'wrath' until you either succumb to their CONTROL or TWISTED form of reasoning and / or 'GET BACK ON-BOARD.' (even though in <em>their</em> own minds they are convinced they are always right). </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">In my almost 40 years of personal study on the Cults, the Occult, Cultic Leaders, Mind Control &Manipulation, and the dangers of Spiritual Abuse, as well as acquiring a massive library also in these areas over these years, I would like to share with you some insights I have learned along the way. Not only from my Study, by at times, sadly, in the life of "hard knocks." Things I can impart to you so you too can be aware of Warning Signs to WATCH OUT FOR in order to protect you, your family and friends. </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">In order to keep this blog from being 'too long', it will be published in several different posts. Let me encourage you, as they come out: Read them, Study them and Pass them on and Share them with others. These blogs will not be comprehensive in their presentations, for in doing so, that in and of itself would constitute a book. However, what you <em>do </em>receive will be the <em>Reader's Digest® </em>portion of each area - 'meat' you can chew on and then digest. </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">If you would like to correspond with me on this journey, share your story, disagree with me (yes, of course you <em>can </em>do so), or simply want to 'talk further', you may do so by writing me at: <strong>lessonsonthejourney@yahoo.com</strong> or <strong>lessonsonthejourney@gmail.com, </strong><em>and of course</em>, here on also on Facebook®. </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">Also, in this process over the next couple of months I will share additional resources and materials that you may obtain to better inform and equip you in order to: (1) Avoid these traits in both your Life and Ministry (sadly we are creatures of habit and "self", and in our zeal and misplaced 'sincerity', we may inadvertently allowed things to <em>creep in </em>to our lives without realizing they are happening, taken root, and brought forth evil fruit in our lives and ministry, as well as the need to (2) Avoid those individuals and ministries <em>like the plague </em>who continue to exhibit, embrace and practice these same traits in their hearts and lives on a regular basis. </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;">So stay tuned, as we journey on this road together looking at <strong>Control Freaks…</strong> </span></p></span></div></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-21476128713982510892011-03-16T14:11:00.001-07:002011-03-16T15:48:30.231-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiksWk9C8fiv_qOIIpzroBJbbhOjGINbYg-utpvc6fTCKeXA8PmnGvnSj9_wKimSPHqDynPNRG_9jHBEWm7ZoAMn84VW2EjZHm3mc1udeFRxG4uFRl6UgqmJLo1U9gmtruhaGDXCuALXdw/s1600/CHILDREN+-+Worshiping+-+2.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 147px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5584813407449789346" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiksWk9C8fiv_qOIIpzroBJbbhOjGINbYg-utpvc6fTCKeXA8PmnGvnSj9_wKimSPHqDynPNRG_9jHBEWm7ZoAMn84VW2EjZHm3mc1udeFRxG4uFRl6UgqmJLo1U9gmtruhaGDXCuALXdw/s200/CHILDREN+-+Worshiping+-+2.jpg" /></a><br /><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8zStfb8ktYdTH47Cf4FbgueYJKInSFXL7_D7kKUs8MD2Fj_kz2KGFfjbrWXFBjImjOA6UFqGQpaEv-T-wPbA8xack0pMNaPSlXP-ghVar5sDbuEwbxfxdA5UPvSrWbxPmnzf9ynvqEPE/s1600/CHILDREN+-+Worshiping+-+2.jpg"></a><br /><br /><br /><div><span xmlns=""><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnlbfYSg_PBQMUzlGHXDGwVA42u3TVbXPWC9CanL6pD1PQ0OqhNHvuqcdDQfEbIDPtS31lgJA7hL1NtTBeheOZtoxQYgwe4h-iVYJEdt1GUKlkQVhm5k2zBgFFyfJvq3dTpGQxoN63L8g/s1600/CHILDREN+-+Worshiping+-+2.jpg"></a><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:14;"><strong>The Wisdom Of a Child's Song…<br /></strong></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Not a lot of 'verbiage' in this blog. But the other morning, getting ready for work, a song we used to sing in Children's Church impacted me in a tremendous way. I was in the shower singing it (I'll spare you the details), but the EMPHASIS and TRUTH of the song overwhelmed me, over-and-over-and-over 'til tears filled my eyes, and God's love ministered to the very depths of my soul in brokenness, adoration, and understanding, as I worshiped before God's throne.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">I guess it was brought about from several conversations I have had over the last few days with a variety of Christians from different ministries, 'churches' and from various parts of the country; and some of it, well some of it I simply just "overheard", (ok, I'll be honest, I was eaves-dropping, give me a break). Either way, my spirit, soul, whatever you want to call it, has really become 'grieved' and 'saddened' because of it. And what I've come to understand is that maybe (no probably), the reason I am so sensitive and attuned to it is because for so many years, in my ignorance, or zeal, and perhaps just plain stupidity, I have been guilty of the very same thing.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">God's Love Letter, The Bible, tells me that <em>"Out of the abundance (the overflow, whatever is in our heart, fills our heart, the very focus) of our heart, the mouth speaks." </em>And what <em>I</em> HEAR coming consistently out of the majority of Christians, ministers, and pastors, etc. hearts and mouths is everything <em>BUT </em>Jesus.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Oh, we talk about, 'church', our services / buildings / facilities / programs, somebody's 'anointing' / message, our pastors / praise team / choir; our accomplishments / goals / visions; our size / numbers; or the latest event and function. Sadly, the list can, and does, go on-and-on. <strong>WHY do we do it? If we are going to be HONEST with OURSELVES then it is because THAT is what FILLS our hearts, it is our FOCUS, and therefore, that is what we SPEAK.<br /></strong></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong></strong><em>EVERYTHING ELSE… </em>FILLS our heart and is our FOCUS <em>BUT… </em>The One who died for us, JESUS CHRIST. We are in love with THINGS <em>about </em>Him, instead of being in love <strong>WITH HIM</strong><em>.</em><br /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Maybe children really 'get it'. Maybe somewhere along the line, we 'lost it.' Maybe we ought to let God recapture our hearts once again <em>"as little children."</em> And let HIM refocus us where HE becomes our FOCUS. And let HIM refill us where HE FILLS our hearts. And when we do, maybe, just maybe, we, as the ones who claim to 'know and love Him', THEN <em>out of the abundance of our hearts </em>will come, simply "JESUS"<strong>, </strong>instead of <em>everything else.<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Oh, and you've probably already figured out the song 'that came to me' in the shower. It goes something like this…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>"Let's TALK about JESUS<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>The King of kings is He,<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>The Lord of lords supreme<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>Throughout eternity.<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>The Great I AM The Way,<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>The Truth, The Life, The Door<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>Let's TALK about JESUS, more and more."</em></span></p></span></div></div></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-20999513771532899152010-07-12T14:04:00.001-07:002010-07-12T14:15:25.007-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTQVYcRM9I4p9aziMfBfjxbqlea-f6xNr5nSvhTK_1lQBuQKTHFytFjFQaoWc8wq3B200QDWgS7SGupu7LgrTLOEBKv8FSK0CHSbD7yK2UJI7wVCIyXw0sftdNDEh5U0sfl059p0VCxj0/s1600/MLM+-+2.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 279px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5493131332147072146" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTQVYcRM9I4p9aziMfBfjxbqlea-f6xNr5nSvhTK_1lQBuQKTHFytFjFQaoWc8wq3B200QDWgS7SGupu7LgrTLOEBKv8FSK0CHSbD7yK2UJI7wVCIyXw0sftdNDEh5U0sfl059p0VCxj0/s400/MLM+-+2.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDLzQainIMuOlDBPZI8MuNPpyKVGNQxp_R7w67MTJGm2SX7nynWMcbfJYlRbJ_J8Zdp319Tf1s01b0x4b_-zB3IaABWDxf-EpW_YXdMhcPYdNw8vBAfCoypnmbZCUhSdhPcXKeKk-Hux8/s1600/MLM+-+2.jpg"></a><br /><br /><div><span xmlns=""><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:14;"><strong>"When 'THAT' Phone Call Comes"<br /></strong></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Subtitled: <em>"Hey (your name), Do you have a couple of minutes?"<br /></em></strong></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Perhaps if you are a Child of God, in the past, and more than likely in the near future, you will receive a phone call that goes something like this:<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>"Hey (your name)! Have you got a few minutes? I was just thinking about you the other day. I know how successful you have been in the past, and still are in (your business) and I've just gotten involved in this tremendous company / opportunity / business that is looking to expand in our area and I would like your "opinion" on it and run some ideas by you. It may or may not be for you, but I would like to take a few minutes of your time to show it to you. Since it's hard to draw a conclusion without getting all the information up-front, would Wednesday or Thursday be better for you?"<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Ever heard something similar to this? You probably have. If not, chances are you will. And when you do you just became the "latest target" of someone who is zealous for their latest Network Marketing / Multi-level Marketing Company (MLM) that they have become involved in.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Now, what does it mean when you pick up that phone and hear those words above? Well, almost like a cult they dangle the bait out in front of you so they can then 'put you through their system <em>the correct way</em>'. Now, I am <em>NOT</em> saying the MLM <em>IS </em>a cult. But they will "hide" from you the complete picture (in order that you can 'get the true message – at least the message they want you to hear until you are 'hooked'). Later on, you find out, as Paul Harvey says, "The rest of the story".<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">So, the real question is, what do they REALLY MEAN when you hear those words and what can you EXPECT if you 'take the plunge' into MLM? To answer that question, let me expand the opening conversation you SHOULD receive if every person that approaches that is involved in MLM was actually "up front with you" as they should be. Or simply as The Scripture says, "providing things HONEST in the sight of ALL men".<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">You ready? Here goes: <strong>"Hey (your name!) Have you got a few minutes </strong>(though in reality when you see what I've seen this will envelop and control your life for years to come changing the way you think, the hours you spend, and where you will put your priorities<strong>. Now I' know you have been successful,</strong> because that's why I'm calling you in the hopes that you will also be successful in my company and personal downline. <strong>What I'm about to share with you may or may not be for you, </strong>but if you're as intelligent as I am and see what I saw, there is no question that you will get involved…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Since I've signed on the bottom line and spent this money to get involved in this Network Marketing / Multi-level Marketing Company, which I believe is THE BEST MLM COMPANY in all the world (because I believe it has THE BEST marketing plan & system [Oh, and I've been involved in a bunch of others before now AND I've checked all the other ones that are out there and currently I REALLY DO BELIEVE (now, though in the past I believed it was actually <em>another</em> company, but that was <em>then</em>) that this ACTUALLY IS THE BEST ONE with the best PRODUCT(S) / SYSTEM, PAY PLAN etc. over any other, (and I need you to spend the same amount of money I did also)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And I REALLY DO BELIEVE you can save money AND make a LOT OF MONEY – why? Because if you can find a couple of "go-getters" just like you, as I'm hoping to do with you] so we can get people "hooked" on using OVER-PRICED products (so we can pay commission back several levels down and we will do so by convincing them to be faithful to the business and use only our products and services to send out the right message by replacing everything in your house with our stuff and convince them we are being Good Stewards of God's money by overspending and asking others to do the same so we can all share that commission)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And in the process of our building this business TOGETHER I can (as also you can), will be able to MISUSE our influence, testimony, walk with God, and ministry (even though in doing so we may actually be 'taking the name of our Lord in vain – thus misrepresenting God and His emphasis) – and may even perhaps be prostituting to you the idea that you would be HELPING OUR (or someone else's) MINISTRY to 'free us up' to do more for God by your getting involved and using the product(s) / services we provide…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Also causing you to spend more money than you will make by also attending weekend functions four or five times a year (that cost a couple between $800 and $1,000 dollars to attend – not including finding someone to watch the kids while we're away from them - which you <em>HAVE</em> TO ATTEND IF YOU'RE SERIOUS ABOUT THE BUSINESS because all the movers and shakers and winners go to these, but not the losers, in order to obtain that multi-million dollar training from other multi-million dollar winners, by INVESTING in your life and future – (and the speakers do get an honorarium when they speak, plus it helps <em>their </em>business, also), oh and when you leave the functions you will find that it will be THE MOST motivational, impacting, life-changing time of your life, almost a religious worship-type experience that you'll ever attend!...<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Even though after two years of being in the business there are proven statistics that 98% of everyone involved in MLM, if you were to look at their W-2 forms, will actually LOSE MONEY in, and building the "business", but that's okay, because look at all the tax deductions you get for the potential of, but actually in the long haul, not making money…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Anyway I was thinking about you (because I'm going through my list as fast as I can go [because that's what my upline taught me to do, to not prejudge anyone, but to use my circle of influence, especially in and with my ministry, position, etc. and of course, GOD, (because He is SO behind our company, pay plan, and business) in order to get as many people involved as I can, (but it's not only who I know, but who you know, and who they know, ad infinity)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And oh, what they will tell me and you later is that even though we are brothers and sisters in Christ, and enjoy fellowshipping together now, we will be taught that we will have to get new friends and 'relatives' – mainly because since we become like those we hang around, I can no longer afford to waste my time with you if you don't get involved, because after all, if you don't see what I see, well, then need I say more, because I won't be able to fellowship any more with negative stinking thinking people no matter who they are (and it's not that I won't love you anymore, I just won't have the time to show you) AND what I have yet to realize is that most of my friends and relatives won't want to spend time with me or be around me later either because I will have been brainwashed into seeing them as stinkin' thinkin' negative people and thinkers – who will also get tired of the only thing I want to talk about, the majority of the time is the business and trying to get them involved…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And since "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks" I'll outwardly 'talk about the Lord', but THE BUSINESS will be what continually comes out of my mouth and heart. So the days of when we used to get together and truly fellowship in our Lord, if you don't get involved, we won't actually do that anymore, and I'll actually use Scriptures out of context to convince myself that what we are doing is Biblical (even though it won't be)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Oh, in and in regards to the functions- you'll just have to go, because (even though LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE MLM Company in the US propagates the SAME THING, even though their company is bad and inferior while only ours is the best) these rallies are so mind blowing, fantastic emphasizing Patriotism, The American Dream (which is actually what we have to do by finding out what you really want - when I talk to you about this, or we sit down, or you attend a 'business opportunity', or watch my DVD and talk to my "friends on the phone calls to substantiate what I can't yet"…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Because in SELLING THE DREAM we have to make you disillusioned and dissatisfied with what God is doing in your life NOW and where HE has you to mold you and make you, what we have to do is make you COVET more money, bigger homes, the beaches of the world, and how GOD can use this to make you prosperous [even though I will find that if I can't budget and honor God with what we are making NOW, more money will only help us to perpetuate our lack of control of finances but just at a higher level and reveal the true thoughts and intents of our heart] - (and we'll even tag on in our presentation about being able to 'give more to missions and the Lord' (or charities), though most NEVER DO)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">...And understand that even though Christ says "In this world you will have trials / tribulation", we will refuse to believe that so what we will do is technically 'LIE' by presenting and posturing ourselves as where we WANT to be even though we AREN'T, and of course we'll pull out those 'name-it-and-claim-it, prosperity verses' ignoring those verses like Hebrews 11, Paul's suffering in 2 Corinthians, etc.) because, wow, just think what the early NT Christians and Paul could have done for our Lord and how they could have accomplished so much more if they or he had just had an opportunity like this, that's why in these "last days" God is pouring out His Holy Spirit and blessings in and through and on OUR COMPANY (and when you become 'enlightened' you will understand this also)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And NOW is <em>THE</em> RIGHT TIME for you to get involved, in fact there is no better time in history than RIGHT NOW, (and if you don't then you'll be left behind and one day look back and remember this day and it will haunt you for the rest of your life) – that's why you will have to begin right away LISTENING to the CDs / DVDs and READING BOOKS thus changing the way you THINK and SPEAK (you know, 'fake it til you make it', speaking into existence the cars, homes, motor homes, etc. you want – some call this a New Age mindset, but they are just unenlightened), and yes, our upline DOES make a lot of money on these 'tools', but hey, you ARE investing in your future, aren't you…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Oh, and we will also convince you of the importance of neglecting your children's ballgames, plays, and school events, along with spending time with your family NOW – we will be able to convince you that it is 'WORTH IT' – of how you must listen to the instruction of your upline over the voices and heart of your FAMILY, the very ones God places in your care - because you will be investing in their future – and they 'just don't understand' (of course, we'll never tell you about the homes that do break up, the affairs that do happen – because of men and women working together, bonding without their spouses, the financial hardships that do occur with those who just aren't serious and as committed, the love for money overshadowing their love for the Lord. (and in your mind confuse <em>and</em> combine the two)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">… You see to really make it in this business you will have to eat, drink, sleep, and breathe this business NOW for only the next 2 to 5 years and THEN you will have THE RESIDUAL INCOME (e.g. "easy street" because you can 'pay now and play later, or play now and pay later, but either way you're gonna pay") [though we won't tell you that more people will actually LEAVE the business than stay in (until you get to a higher pin level of course, and then you will be instructed in all this), and you never will have TRUE residual income (you can maybe take longer vacations and/or a month or two off, but YOU'D BETTER NOT walk away from this business and quit building it because it will literally fall apart…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…Oh, and if you make it to one of the top levels, you can then propagate all sorts of personal stuff off on your downline and 'make a killing' [CD's of your spouse singing, other "ideas" or "gadgets", books you've written, motivational CDs/DVDs you will produce, etc. the sky's the limit!} – and if you don't think it will fall apart, there is always the danger of YOUR GROUP leaving you for a 'better' MLM plan, company, idea "down the road" (as misguided as they will be, of course) and you will be financially devastated, so you'll always just have to KEEP THEM WORKING, and MOTIVATED and YOU CONSTANTLY WORKING but that's okay, because it's better than that old 'J.O.B; (right?!)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…So even though you will sacrifice time away from your family and friends for that "one day" DREAM VACATION and "one day" FREEDOM to have that TIME TOGETHER with your family, that you could be INVESTING IN NOW, but don't think you can, so you'll take what little time you do have and make excuses for it now, breaking your kids' hearts, disappointing them regularly for that next event, justifying all this in your mind, causing disappointment with your children, but MAYBE one day they'll understand (?) that because you can give them more THINGS, THEN when you didn't take the time to spend with them NOW WHEN THEY NEEDED IT and the importance of GIVING OF YOURSELF that somehow, one day, those 'THINGS' will all make up for it (yes, the Scripture says, "we brought nothing into this world and we can take nothing out", but remember, "God gives us ALL ***THINGS*** "RICHLY" to enjoy, so we need to get BIGGER and BETTER and MORE THINGS then, don't we, but don't worry, maybe the family will be able to sort it all out, maybe they will perhaps grab "that what you are SAYING is more important than what you LIVED before them"…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And be sure that we will show you how the Top Producers seem to have achieved what we long for and they will tell you that EVERYONE can do it too, even though THE NUMBERS NEVER PLAY OUT, perhaps you can be ONE OF THE FEW who can speak on stages, walking the beaches of the world, impacting a downline – in essence giving them a FALSE HOPE - so even though there is NO WAY you can comprehend all of this right now, and even though, in a way, you'll be pimping and prostituting your fellow Christians (making them almost like 'Christina Hookers' – using them for selfish gain – though you will mentally convince yourself that it is actually for their own good one way or the other – and if not, then they just didn't 'buy into the dream' and weren't serious enough about 'working the business' and 'being a part of your team') and even your non-Christians "friends" (at least for just a little time longer), and in reality you'll be misrepresenting God to those who do and don't know Christ, and even though you won't be able to LOOK at anyone ever the same again, especially at Church because people will become "prospects" the Holy Spirit can 'lead you to' instead of Brothers and Sisters in Christ to love simply… "WITHOUT A HOOK"…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…And even though people will SHUN YOU because they won't feel like they can approach you anymore without your trying to prostitute / proselyte them into your new company / business / system – so you've lost the freedom to simply share with them God's heart (without sitting there figuring out how 'down the road' you can now USE THIS as a tool / stepping stone into having them join your team and thus building your business and making you wealthy)…<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">…My question for you now, and what I am REALLY EXCITED to share with you and ask you is <strong>'Would Tuesday night at 6 p.m., or Thursday at 7 p.m. be better for you?"<br /></strong></span></p></span></div></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-40273847453838334822010-07-01T17:22:00.001-07:002010-07-01T17:41:41.873-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6erXgWV3bcHFcFTy7ZYuURKPLBUyHQ1Xnbi3IlGtLPsoDvpurQ0fSZmRAxuiHpg3MfQkw06AdpHR_h4nPh6CeHMCiVC_AazQSXHMd94j_yl4Ud14N-RlY75IxoiCF_QYBS7GRuuquFBk/s1600/Hungry+Child+-+1.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 226px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489102455800904738" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6erXgWV3bcHFcFTy7ZYuURKPLBUyHQ1Xnbi3IlGtLPsoDvpurQ0fSZmRAxuiHpg3MfQkw06AdpHR_h4nPh6CeHMCiVC_AazQSXHMd94j_yl4Ud14N-RlY75IxoiCF_QYBS7GRuuquFBk/s320/Hungry+Child+-+1.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-u_hURfePw-rx2UA2JEf4eqbPgymCBXnmg6r4UevRYJUTkV6iW4yhOA_VgXswOi5KNfjnQJLFDVPmJGL1wTW4Ec1MZtsz0OFLhCDW0_11-sTw4T2B3DNRluKMz-PQ8YZ1l_-qJ7Dmxz4/s1600/Scroll+-+1.jpg"></a><br /><br /><div><span xmlns=""><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:14;color:#002060;"><strong>Journal Entry: Jerusalem 108 AD – "Hungry Children"<br /></strong></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Dear Journal:</strong> It is hard to believe that 40 years have passed since Paul has left us. Over forty years since that encounter he had with our Lord on the road to Damascus, followed by years of fruitful ministry and many hardships. Paul is now with the Lord in Heaven and we carry on in his place. Our lives were touched by his compassion and heartbeat. That is what drives us.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">I remember Timothy telling us many of the stories about Paul, the lives he touched and the ministries he started. One of which I am carrying on still today. There are so many homeless and hungry children with no one it seems who cares. Well, actually they do. But until Paul began collecting monies from followers of The Way and strategically placing those funds where needed, many of those needs went unmet. At first, it was a few locations 'here and there', but as we've become more organized, it now seems that so many more lives are collectively impacted, on a long-term basis.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Paul passed the baton onto Timothy, and now, he to me. But here lately, I find my travels are becoming harder. This old body doesn't recover like it use to. I foresee soon how the day will come when I may be unable to perform all that is required to keep this ministry going, the long miles, the endless hours, time away from home takes its toll on a man. These sacrifices though are now well worth it for The Master. But it has played more on my mind with my wondering, "Lord, what will I do? How will my needs be met?"<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">This has plagued me for some time. And then one day, it was as if the Lord Himself opened my mind with a vision, or was it a revelation? I wonder, but the clarity of it became real to me of how not only to impact so many more lives, but also how to provide for myself as I grow weaker and older.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>First</strong>, what has transpired since that morning in my tent is that I have obtained the help of other Believers who are also in the service for our Lord. They too are now sharing this burden to feed the homeless and hungry children around our world. Many of these Followers have become 'well known' in our Messiah's movement and have much influence. They have partnered with me, almost like a network, in spreading this much needed message to every town and village. Because of their efforts, many, many more are now helping to support, these, God's little children. What was it our Lord said, "What you do to the least of these, you do also to me", yes, that's it.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Second</strong>, these 'servants of God' in helping me further this ministry, while still performing their own calling, they too have expenses. At times they go without. I have found, by taking a 'portion' of the regular amount collected that has been 'promised to the children', and giving to 'help support and provide to offset their needs, results in the very ones who are spreading this word', motivating them and increasing the zeal of their message. This has resulted in more and more monies coming in. Thus the more they share, the more people give. The more people give, the greater their stipend. For some, the amount they receive is becoming a very substantial amount.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Yes, it is true we don't share with those who are giving to the children, that part of their grace giving goes to the actual person who is collecting those funds, but as His Word says, "They who preach the Gospel, should live of the Gospel", and in reality, <em>NOT</em> telling the contributors causes less 'trouble' than trying to explain that to them "up-front".<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Third</strong>, of course there are expenses for myself and those who serve alongside me also. Though most of the time a significant portion of what is given is still going to the children, it seems that it is taking more and more to creatively 'spread the word' into new areas, establish new overseers to distribute the food and funds, provide incomes for them, etc. At times I wonder if this is what Paul had in mind when he began all of this?<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Finally</strong>, I am excited to see how this is what The Lord will use to help me retire, or rather I should say, meet all my family's needs as I enter my twilight years; or if some injury or illness prevents me from further travel. In fact, I hate to say, with the amount of monies coming in, even with supporting thousands of hungry and homeless children around the world as an international ministry, our finances will no longer be a problem. Praise Yahweh!<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Recently we had the pleasure of meeting a successful businessman by the name of Demas. He shared with us that if we would use some of the proceeds to bring Elders from various cities to see our work, as well as 'honoring' the larger collectors of funds by bringing these two groups to 'the field' to visit the children and see first-hand how they have, or can, 'make a difference', that this would more than quadruple revenues coming in so we would be able to support more children. One of his slogans is, "The ends justify the means". I am not sure if this is part of Adonai's recorded words or not, but it sure makes sense, and it works.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Journal, something unusual happened the other day as I was traveling through Sinai. I met a caravan and presented them with the need we share and asked them if they would like to give. They asked me some pointed questions regarding the actual distribution of our funds. There was something in the man's eyes with whom I spoke that made me want to be honest with him, so I told him what we were doing. He thanked me, but then declined the offer! He said something about another follower of The Way, I think they said he goes by the name "Christian", he's from somewhere over around Antioch, and this man is also feeding the hungry and homeless children. He keeps no denari for himself, nor does he give any of the proceeds to others. He shared that every single coin he collects, all of it goes to the children. Any personal or ministry expense that is accrued is provided for in a different and separate way. Imagine that!<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Still, there are fleeting moments I question if what we are doing is truly ethical and completely honest with God's people, and before our Lord. After all, what if those that were distributing the funds and food to the children did it simply because they loved the Lord? What if others in God's family would present this without remuneration because that is simply what our Lord would have done? What if we trusted God to provide in some other way rather than 'robbing', maybe I should say 'taking', a portion out of the mouths of these children? What if every denari that someone gave really, completely went to the children? I wonder how many more lives could we really impact and touch?<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">But then… When I look at all we have accomplished, when I see how "prosperous & successful" everything is, I conclude, surely this is a sign of God's blessings, isn't it? Oh well, it is working, and there are a lot more children out there who need to be fed, and there a whole lot more people who can give.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Until the next time, Journal, Shalom.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><br /></span></p></span></div></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-71823475157425594532010-05-26T10:50:00.001-07:002010-05-26T11:05:31.946-07:00"If It Looks Like A Duck, and Quacks Like A Duck..."<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjblQS4M2ue9QSDt6f4bLVtyJHXCr4gc0FO7_FgpATy5KSOcGIadFBOZbiKePJBiBwbB5ybBh049OsT6ZrgOqVoCOJ4ZgCjuY9_nuBNpT8NVvhj7Onvtmjs-OCOIJ7uYIwLbTXCQjyYvHU/s1600/DUCK+-+Cool+looking+Duck.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 269px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5475641283335880882" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjblQS4M2ue9QSDt6f4bLVtyJHXCr4gc0FO7_FgpATy5KSOcGIadFBOZbiKePJBiBwbB5ybBh049OsT6ZrgOqVoCOJ4ZgCjuY9_nuBNpT8NVvhj7Onvtmjs-OCOIJ7uYIwLbTXCQjyYvHU/s320/DUCK+-+Cool+looking+Duck.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><span xmlns=""><div><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Have you noticed the names of "Churches" lately? Imagine if someone knocked on your door, or invited you to <em>this </em>Church…<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div><br /><br /><br /><br /> </div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><em>"Hello, we're from the United, Interdenominational, Non-denominational, Denominational, Independent, Conservative, Fundamental, Restoration, First, Second, Anglican, General, Evangelical, Reformed, Pentecostal, Holiness, Charismatic, Progressive, Contemporary, Traditional, Southern Gospel, Church of God - in Christ, of Jerusalem Acres, of Prophecy, All Saints of Bethel, Trinity, East, West, North, South, Uptown, Downtown, Faith, Hebron, House of Joy, Kingdom Covenant Ministries, Willow Head, Willow Creek, Morningside, New Beginnings, Paradise, Various Trees, Saint Whoever You Want, Firstborn, Messianic, Covenant, Victory, Celebration, Bethlehem, All Saints, AME, Apostolic, Full Gospel, Lutheran, Freewill, American, Southern, Baptist, Methodist, Calvary, Crossroad, Assembly, Fellowship, Gathering, Cowboy, Episcopal, Presbyterian, Encounter, Global, Cornerstone, Connection, God's True, River of Life, Core, Guardian, Disciples, Christian Missionary, of the Nazarene, Savior, Lord, Living Water, Rock, and King Jesus Christ, Temple, Tabernacle, Community, Cathedral, Chapel Home Group and Church"<br /></em></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">(Whew! Could you imagine writing your 'tithe' check to <em>this </em>institution?) A name like that, of course, would be ridiculous. But let's take a moment and consider "THE NAME" of the institution<em> we</em> attend.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">We as people who 'claim to follow the Lord Jesus Christ' can come up with some <em>interesting </em>names (and yes, sometimes some ridiculous ones also) regarding what we want to <em>CALL OURSELVES </em>and to <em>BE KNOWN AS… AND </em>we 'wear' those 'names' with great pride, and many times as a badge.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Ask the average Christian, <em>"Where do you GO to Church?" </em>and you'll probably hear a combination of some form of the list above. The SAD reality is that we TALK MORE about our own INSTITUTIONAL CHURCHES than we ever do about Jesus Christ, and it doesn't stop there. We Expend the majority of our Efforts, Energies, and Expenses to PROSELYTE other 'church goers' to our 'corner lot or street address' in order to increase the Size of our Buildings & Attendance, Monies coming in, our Program expansion, et al, in order to HOOK OTHERS into our own 'Community' than we ever do by truly focusing on building the Kingdom of Jesus Christ.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">But I digress. The focus of this article is that <strong>WHAT <em>WE</em> call ourselves is really NOT IMPORTANT.</strong> Recently in our home town, another 'Church' has <em>changed its name </em>from the typical, standard denominational wording because it felt that it <em>just wasn't relevant </em>any more to our modern culture. Therefore, they 'changed the name' in the hopes that it would be more <em>contemporary and user-friendly. </em>That somehow, "CHANGING THE NAME OF WHAT WE CALL OURSELVES", would be an ATTRACTION to 'get people to come' to our location and somehow define us more accurately. Or even better, to cause people who have never come before, to now want to come <em>because of a new name we've tagged ourselves with. </em>But an Institution is an Institution. And no matter how we REPACKAGE it, RENAME it, or REWORK it, the essence, structure, and emphasis, for the most part, is still the same <strong><br /></strong></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Here's the REALITY: <strong>It doesn't matter what WE call ourselves – what DOES matter is what the WORLD calls us. </strong>Did you get that? Please, read it again.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">For some reason, we as 'Christians' are living in a fairy-tale world and pseudo-spiritual mindset where we 'THINK' that what we are DOING and HOW WE DO IT are actually relevant and impacting those around us. In truth, for the most part, the <em>only </em>ones we are 'impressing' may be other believers in other institutions (who, if we were honest with ourselves, are the very ones we are COMPETING with! Don't believe me? Attend an average citywide Pastor's gathering, and you can 'cut' the Posturing, Power struggle, & Personalities vying for Preeminence, Dominance, and Control with a knife). We are <em>NOT </em>impacting our city or society. In fact, if the average 'Church' would take its "head out of the sand" we would find that society is laughing at us – not because they <em>don't understand spiritual things </em>but because of our MINDLESS, MEANINGLESS RELIGIOSITY.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">We keep trying to REPACKAGE and REDRESS what we are doing ON THE OUTSIDE with NO REAL CHANGE on the INSIDE. Where did we ever get the idea that doing a 'facelift' of our particular Institution would 'FOOL' those outside it, or ever be a DRAWING CARD to those who don't know Christ?! People aren't attracted to Cantatas, Programs, Buildings, Personalities, Movements, Gimmicks, etc. People aren't stupid. They SEE THE HOLLOWNESS of what we are doing and the BOREDOM as well as the MONOTONY. Where did we ever develop the thoughts and mindset that they are blind and oblivious to our HOOKS – that we think they can't see what attempting to accomplish<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Think I'm off-base. I challenge you; over the next week to ask your fellow co-workers, neighbors, students, and relatives what <em>THEY REALLY THINK OF THE LOCAL CHURCH – </em>that "thing" we have developed, redefined and call 'Church'<em>. </em>But let me warn you, you'd better be prepared because you <em>WON'T </em>like what they are saying, and you <em>WON'T </em>like what you will hear. And when they tell you, <em>DON'T</em> take it 'personally' and certainly <em>DON'T </em>try and defend your position against their comments, accusations, and insights. For once, step back and LOOK AT IT THROUGH THEIR EYES and see it as <em>THEY</em> do. If they TRUST you, they will be HONEST. If they don't, well there is no telling 'what' you will get. Either way, their answers and insight will SHOCK you. It did me, and boy am I glad it did.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">You see, the world, (both the un-churched and lost) are looking for people who are REAL in their walk with Jesus Christ. They are TIRED of all the PLASTICITY and MINDLESS COOKIE CUTTER ROUTINE. It doesn't matter to them if you <strong><em>'Dress Up Your Duck' </em></strong>and try to become more User-friendly or relevant or not. They are looking for <em>someone </em>whose devotion is not geared toward a 'Sunday Morning Event'. Where the 'Jesus' we promote in our meetings, and rarely talk about outside of them, is TRULY REAL, and where they can see Him ACTUALLY IMPACTING someone's life in a meaningful way instead of a people who claim to know Christ and simply traded a "Secular Country Club for a Religious One". Where life become vibrant instead of a RELIGIOUS, DEAD ORTHODOXY - Where <em>HE </em>is REAL and THE <em>FOCUS</em> of their life –where there is an INTIMACY with Abba Father<em>, </em>where <em>walking daily in the dust of The Rabbi </em>is a DESIRE instead of a DUTY, instead of mindlessly serving the endless expectations of an institution.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Go ahead, ask them. One of the answers you will get is that they see a people IN LOVE with a Building, Meetings, Programs, and Schedule; but they just don't see those same people TRULY IN LOVE with A PERSON. They will tell you about: Power struggles, Dictatorship, Contradictory Rules & Regulations, Meaningless Traditions (both Old and New), Promoting of Personalities, Endless Programs, Phoniness, Money-hungry, Obligations of Attendance and Service 'Inside Four Walls' to and for an Institution which they have set up as a standard of <em>faithfulness and true spirituality, </em>where DOING is emphasized more than BEING, and their list will go on-and-on. And whether you feel it is '<em>true</em> or not' doesn't really matter. WHY? Because perception is 90% the rule, and that is what we've been presenting, <em>and </em>what they have been perceiving by our actions. (Remember the old saying, <em>"What you are Doing speaks so loudly I can't hear what you are Saying"</em>)? In reality, that <em>IS </em>what we have been doing and still do. How do I know? Because not only have I been guilty of the same and 'been there', but the Scripture tells us; <em>'Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks".<br /></em></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">You see, <strong>"It's NOT what we CALL OURSELVES that matters, but what OTHERS CALL US". </strong>Whether those names include "Hypocrite, Religious, Phony, Fake, Empty, Churchy, Boring, Self-Righteous, (and add to it any of the CHURCHY names from the beginning of the article) etc." <strong>What do people CALL You? </strong>The Bible tells us, in Antioch, the lost world called those who believed in, walked with, and followed Christ, <em>CHRISTIANS. </em>Did you catch that? The Christians didn't choose their name or title, but OTHERS DID IT FOR THEM. And WHAT A TITLE!<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Individuals who exemplified not a denomination, non-denomination, church building, or movement; but individuals who were totally consumed with A PERSON, JESUS CHRIST. So much so, that HIS LIFE became their ALL and FOCUS so consumed with His REALITY, PERSON, and LOVE that they became just like Him. People consumed WITH, BY and IN a RELATIONSHIP and <em>NOT </em>a 'religious duty'. And THAT is what the world saw. (They just<em> 'called them like they saw them</em>'<strong>)<br /></strong></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Am I just too naïve to think that is the way it should be today? I don't think so. The more I place my heart in His, the more I understand that <em>He first loved me and loves me with an everlasting love, </em>then the LESS important the 'churchy name I'm called, or group I'm affiliated with, or building, or religious institution becomes. We've been trying to build THE INSTITUTIONAL CHURCH with worldly success principles OUR way as if that was the way He would do it. Jesus didn't die to start another movement, religion, or building. He no longer dwells in buildings made with hands. And yet, we've redefined the 'Church' to what it is today - a Building and Location vs. a Body. Jesus said, <em>"I will build MY Church".</em> People today (both in the Religious Structure and outside it) are BORED with the way we are DOING Church. More and more Christians, as well as society is looking for a PEOPLE (not an institution) whose emphasis and reality is on BEING the Body of Christ and not DOING Church. And <em>THAT</em> has NOTHING to do with LOCATION.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Oh that that would be our FOCUS today instead of <em>OUR institution, building, kingdom, and names. </em>Oh that there would rise up individuals where CHRIST was such a part of their lives, that <em>out of the abundance of their heart, He would be on their, no our lips. </em>But instead, <strong>we just keep PROMOTING and REDRESSING our duck </strong>trying to make it more relevant to a world that could care less and wants nothing to do with our Religious Social Clubs.<br /></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">May I ask you this question, as I have asked myself many, many times lately, <strong><em>"What do my and your fellow co-workers, neighbors, students, or relatives REALLY SEE as the essence of my and your heart and life? Is it a "Location" or a PERSON – a 'RELIGION' or a RELATIONSHIP – Is it Endless involvement with an INSTITUTION or INTIMACY with a Loving God"? What if you asked them about you? Would you dare? If they were to look at your life and all that it represents, what would they CALL <span style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">YOU</span>? Is your emphasis and focus more on one of the 'names' from the list above, or Jesus Christ?<br /></em></strong></span></p><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">I'm <em>NOT </em>telling you to leave your particular institution. I <em>AM</em> advocating that you WALK with and LOVE HIM so much more. <em>"I am!"</em> you might say? If you really think so, then ask someone, outside of your 'fellowship, gathering, or church'. If you did, what would people CALL YOU if you asked? Are you willing to "drop your label" and see what people CALL YOU? Give it try and then let's stop REDRESSING OUR DUCK and start LOVING and WALKING with our SAVIOR!</span></p></span></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-29561596364052900572010-03-10T17:04:00.001-08:002010-03-10T17:04:17.780-08:00<span xmlns=''><p style='text-align: center'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:18pt'><strong>"Let's Go To The Circus" Part 1<br /></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><br /> </p><p style='text-align: center'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'><strong><em>"Ladies and Gentlemen, Children of All Ages. Come One, Come All and Welcome to the Greatest Show On Earth!"<br /></em></strong></span></p><p><br /> </p><p><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Don't you just love the Circus?! The Colors, bright lights, the music, various performances, the clowns, the animals, the cotton candy, the death-defying trapeze artists - the list goes on and on. Nothing quite can capture the mind and heart of the smell of sawdust, the lights, the air of expectation, and the excitement. <br /></span></p><p><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Circuses come in all shapes and sizes. Years ago before television, it was the highlight of the year for any town – it is something that everyone looked forward to. The train whistle would sound and the smoke flume rise as the train chug-a-chugged rolling into to town. Children would rush and watch the circus cars unload. People of all ages would line the streets as the gala parade began. Lions in cages, performers riding elephants, the calliope pipes tooting, beautiful costumes, jugglers and clowns would unicycle down the street as the parade traveled down the street. The crowds would excitedly make their way out to where the circus tent was located longing to hear those words, "Let the Show begin!" <br /></span></p><p><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Circuses varied in their size and what they offered. Some circuses had one ring. The bigger and better circuses had two, and even three rings. But one thing was for sure, <strong>there was something for everyone </strong>to excite the hearts and minds for children and adults alike.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Perhaps<em> THE</em> best known and loved circus even to this day is the Barnum & Bailey Circus. Visit one of their shows today (and they have several), peruse their website and you can almost envision the sights and hear the sounds; you can feel the excitement bubble up within you – yes, you 'want to attend'.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; background: #f8fcff'><span style='font-family:Arial'><span style='color:black'>Each circus has a <strong>ringmaster</strong> or <strong>ringleader</strong> who is often the most important and most-visible performer in the modern <a title='Circus' href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circus'/></span>circus<span style='color:black'>. He usually introduces the various <a title='Circus skills' href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circus_skills'/></span>acts<span style='color:black'><br /> </span><span style='color:#0070c0'><strong>and guides the audience through the entertainment experience</strong></span><span style='color:black'>. Most modern-day ringleaders <strong>become an integral part of the performance</strong>, singing and dancing along with the other entertainers.<br /></span></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; background: #f8fcff'><span style='color:black; font-family:Arial'>The traditional opening line of many circuses is the phrase "Ladies, and gentlemen, children of all ages..." drawn out in dramatic fashion, with voice raised, and pause given just where it is needed... It not only signals the beginning of the main event, but it also assures the adults that <strong>it is okay to experience the child within and enjoy the show.<br /></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; background: #f8fcff'><span style='color:black; font-family:Arial'>In the days before modern lighting equipment, it was the ringleader's job to literally "direct" the attention of the audience to the appropriate sections of the performance area, even as the previous act was being torn down or the next act was being set up in another area. In the past, most performances were mute by nature, accompanied by resounding brass music. Therefore, the ringleader's big, booming voice was important as it cut through the clutter and excitement to announce the act.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; background: #f8fcff'><span style='font-family:Arial'><span style='color:black'><strong>It is also the ringmaster's job to </strong>create a sense of <a title='Hyperbole' href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperbole'/></span>hyperbole<span style='color:black'> whenever possible <strong>while introducing the acts.</strong><br /> <strong>Declarations of </strong></span><strong><span style='color:#0070c0'>the "biggest", </span><span style='color:black'>"most dangerous", </span><span style='color:#0070c0'>"amazing", "spectacular"</span><span style='color:black'> and similar expressions are common, </span><span style='color:#0070c0'>regardless of the actual caliber of the performance.<br /></span></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; background: #f8fcff'><span style='font-family:Arial'><span style='color:#0070c0'><strong>The ringleader is responsible for maintaining the smooth flow of the show</strong> <strong>— or at least the appearance of it.</strong></span><span style='color:black'> He may be called upon to fill time if an act isn't ready for their entrance in time.<br /></span></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>People are attracted to the Circus. And the better the Ringmaster – the more people will invite others. For the Ringmaster, makes the audience feel as if they are a part of the performance."<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>As with all circuses of yesteryear and even today, they compete against one another. For truly, the owner, Ringmaster, and performers want you attending their circus instead of going to the 'competition'. Each circus wants to be THE CIRCUS that is above all the others, the one that attracts the most. And within each circus, performers and Ringmasters come-and-go to other circuses – wherever they are better paid / compensated, and appreciated, and for some, where they can finally move to the 'center ring'.<br /></span></p><p><br /> </p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'><strong>NOW STOP A MOMENT! </strong>BEFORE you go any farther, will you take a minute and simply reread those first few paragraphs again and see if you see what I see? Do you see ANY similarities with another group, organization, or institution? Can your mind stretch with me just a moment and be opened to the possibility of how a CIRCUS functions has in many ways become the very same way we "DO Church today'? Farfetched, ludicrous you think? Let me explain. It may not be as far off as we would like to think it is.<br /></span></p><p><br /> </p><p><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'><strong>THREE PARTS TO THE CIRCUS:<br /></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Let's start with <span style='color:#4f81bd'><strong>The Ringmaster</strong></span> – who in many churches has become a lot like the Pastor. The Ringmaster-Pastor directs The Performers and Performances – that 20% of every congregation that does 80% of the 'jobs / ministry / performances' of any institution. Want to know all he does, reread the paragraphs above. Though an accurate description of a true circus ringmaster, the parallels are frightening.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Next are the <span style='color:#4f81bd'><strong>Circus Performers</strong></span> - those who "minister, sacrifice for, perform, and are up front, in the spotlights of the 'theater', out in the ring performing / ministering to and for the 80%. These are the ones whom the audience would possibly think are 'the most talented and spiritual'. <strong>An Interesting Fact:</strong> Though many of these people have a true heart for God and want to be used by Him to lead and encourage others to walk with God, and do the same as themselves – there is an increasing, growing number in many local congregations across America of those who are truly <em>are </em>intimate with Abba Father, walking daily as a disciple and not just performing some religious duty or function – walking in the dust of the Rabbi, becoming like Him; it is these very people who are refusing to become bogged down in the often times drudgery, life-sapping, endless requirements, commitments, committees, and programs that are needed to keep the circus / machine running smoothly.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Lastly, there is the <span style='color:#4f81bd'><strong>Audience. </strong></span>They are the target. These are the ones who come to enjoy and "feel a part' of the circus by watching the performances, acts, and listening to the Ringmaster. They give their money, clap, laugh, and cry; critique the performances / acts / ministries, and enjoy the show, The Ringmaster's and Performer's job is to make sure that the Audience is receptive, entertained, and given <strong>a show that they will never forget </strong>so that they will Return and most of all, invite their friends, as well as proselyte those who might attend other circuses to attend their own.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><br /> </p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>I am afraid that somewhere along the way, we have <strong>lost our focus</strong>. When most of our time is spent 'preparing and practicing' for 'our upcoming performances' (after all we do want to honor and glorify God with our very best); when we expend the majority of our <strong>energy, expense, and effort</strong> to go toward "The Sunday Morning Event", where a "FEW perform" for the masses, in reality just to maintain the 'success' of the "institution", so that those attending will feel that they are a vital part of the "circus performance' itself, even when the majority of what they do is just being spectator; <strong>somewhere along the line we have gotten sidetracked and off-centered, <br /></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>Is this what Jesus really meant when He said He would establish and build His Church? Is this what Jesus meant when He prayed for unity, that we as His children would with an almost "competitive pride, vengeance, and fervency" promote and proselyte people from another Circus to our own – that our emphasis and intense love is no longer directed toward Christ as Lord and Savior and reaching the lost, but toward our own Circus, as if it was BETTER than someone else's, as if <em>IT</em> was the answer for all men's problems?. That we would sacrifice and expend numerous hours every single week for a one, two, or three hour 'performance' that we are calling a worship service? Is that what ministry is really to be all about? Localized in a building (whether that building is a home, church, storefront, or gymnasium)? Focused INWARD toward the Audience instead of OUTWARD in reaching the world. Is perhaps the reason the world wants NOTHING to do with our Savior is because we are so busy exalting, promoting, and talking about our Circus / Church / Religious Institution / Home Group that they see us as 'glorified fraternities or religious social clubs'. That our Circus impacts us more than our Savior!? Why would anyone want to 'leave this world' for another 'organization'? We are not presenting to them a REAL JESUS but a performed one!<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'><strong>[Note:</strong> Please understand that we are NOT suggesting that it is 'wrong' for Christians to gather for Bible Study or Worship. The questions that truly need to be answered are: Are we truly operating as a complete Body of Christ according to Ephesians 4? Are lives TRULY being changed when the average Christian remembers little to nothing re: the previous week's performance or message but they sure enjoyed it (just like at a circus)? Are we truly impacting our world and community for Jesus Christ or just 'pumping up' our own Christian Gathering? Are we fulfilling our need to 'perform in order to be accepted, to be considered spiritual, or do we have some kind of 'spiritual narcistic' need to be in power, control, and to be noticed as the Ringmaster or one of the Performers by directing others (we call it 'leading') in what they should do – having them fulfill our vision and jump through our hoop? Have we forgotten and replaced what Jesus said re: what TRUE LEADERSHIP is – that of being a SERVANT with that of being a Ringmaster? These are questions that MUST be answered by each of us<strong>]</strong><br /> </span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>You see, if the things we do as a body are not <em>TRULY</em> (<strong>1). Christ-focused / centered, and (2) Relationship based</strong> then we've missed it. No matter how "successful" we think we are, how many people we attract, how big, attractive, and modern our buildings (circus tents) are, or how many programs we may support, - if numbers 1 & 2 are not THE FOCAL POINT, the very HEARTBEAT of what we do, the very BREATH WE BREATHE, then we are only kidding ourselves! When the Circus / Church / Institutional Building / Home Group – "within our four walls" receives the majority of our energy, focus, thoughts, and efforts THERE IS A PROBLEM! And here is THE BIGGEST PROBLEM OF ALL – conservatively 95%+ of ALL Circuses / Churches can operate<strong> WITHOUT GOD at all. </strong>For most, 'JESUS' has become a slang word, that 'Savior out there', our tag-on to validate the spirituality of everything we are doing instead of our very BREATH, our CENTER and FOCUS, or as the Scripture says, <em>"IN HIM we move and breathe and have our being" </em>. No, for the MAJORITY of Ringmasters, Performers, and Audience, our weekly "fix", our satisfaction of performing, being recognized by others, etc. has become our validation instead of WHO we are in Christ and most of all just LOVING AND KNOWING (intimately) Him.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>If we truly would take the time to stop and honestly look at and evaluate what we are actually doing, I believe we will find that 'though we "say" we are doing what we do is to 'glorify God', in reality our very energy, expenses, and efforts are intensified in TALKING more about, PROMOTING and PROCLAIMING our own circus, as well as COMPETING AGAINST other "Christian Circuses" to proselyte Christians away from where they currently are attending in order to DRAW people to our OWN INSTITUTIONS rather than the Lord. In fact, we truly need to ask ourselves the question of "WHY IS IT that the majority of our ENERGY, EXPENSE, AND EFFORTS are predominately FOCUSED towards our Sunday morning services and around a building???!!! It is true that Jesus spoke to the multitudes, but where LIFE CHANGE occurred was where He spent time ONE ON ONE with individuals in an intimate, daily, discipleship process. Somehow we feel that in our present day that <em>OUR</em> way of doing things is much better than the way God set things up to be the most productive in affecting, changing, and impacting lives for HIS glory. Maybe we just need to be candidly honest with ourselves and admit that one of <em>THE </em>main reasons we fervently, and purposefully attract people to 'our own Big Top' is, that if we don't, they will "go somewhere else". And it DOES take money to pay salaries, utilities, insurance, buy equipment, etc. at a location that is probably the worst use of God's Stewardship for the amount of time that the people are 'in the Big Top' – that's why the more people we get to come to our unique form of circus rhetoric, the more it allows us to provide varied and streamlined performances. The more money we collect, we feel the 'more we can do for the Lord'. We proclaim that the 'bigger and better our circus is' the more we can 'accomplish for God'. And yet, most of our monies, and "outreach" or "humanitarian efforts" have an underlying HOOK, HIDDEN MOTIVE, and INCENTIVE to draw and bring people to OUR LOCATION, truly focusing us INWARD, instead of 'really' for the Lord. God becomes a 'tack on' by-product.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>First, let me say that I don't believe that all local "congregations" are this way. But as we look on the horizon, somewhere we have subtly and perhaps without realizing it, made the move from a gradual to complete paradigm shift from BEING the body of Christ – and BEING His Church to now DOING and PERFORMING CHURCH – from experiencing true FELLOWSHIP and RELATIONSHIPS to a superficial interaction within a meeting and a sterile RELIGIOUS PERFORMANCE that "sprinkles" the same with 'Jesus' name' to justify what we are doing.. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>As a 'Circus', we <em>MUST </em>keep the audience happy and entertained. We <em>MUST </em>make sure that the <strong>'Circus machine runs effectively and smoothly'</strong> – because if we don't, there are enough OTHER circuses out there for people to choose from. And if OUR Circus doesn't remain 'THE BEST', they WILL find another circus / church to go to.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'>What we need to realize is that whatever Performances, Programs, and Personalities we use to draw and attract people to our 'Big Top' is what we will have to continue to do to KEEP them there. <strong>Note:</strong> Some Ringmasters have become master manipulators in using GUILT, or finding a person's BUTTON to get them to invite others to the circus and maybe even get them to PERFORM for their own circus. In fact, they have become professionals at finding what 'motivates' a person and then playing to their need, especially if they are talented or wealthy. They call it SPIRITUAL DISCERNMENT (e.g. "The Lord has impressed upon me to share with you, ask you to, etc.) When in reality it is simply SPIRITUAL MANIPULATION & ABUSE. So our process becomes that of focusing on 'making our church / circus to succeed' and "to attract more and more people to our circus performance'. Why? So they will keep coming back, again-and-again-and-again.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'> Ephesians 4 states, that the CHURCH of Jesus Christ is a BODY, a FAMILY, that is <em>NOT</em> to function as a MACHINE, but as a FAMILY that truly LOVES and INTERACTS with each other, DAILY. Not in some 'religious superficiality' on "Sundays and Wednesdays", but where <em>"every part does his or her share" </em>so it will not retard the growth of the body – daily walking by each other's side and investing in each other's lives. <strong>[Note: </strong>And when this was written, there was <em>NO </em>Church Building or Institution for over 300 years, so it's application is <em>NOT </em>to be specifically focused within our "four walls", but it something TOTALLY DIFFERENT - perhaps something we need to take "outside the box – outside our 'four walls'<strong>] </strong>And it is not fulfilled with the 20% serving the 80%. It is not the 20% performing. It is not the 100% focused within or an Institution, on Programs, etc. But it is 100% of the body, encouraging each other one-on-one, wherever they are in their walk, outside the church walls, on a day-to-day basis loving each other. For BEING THE CHURCH is FAR DIFFERENT than the way we have adopted DOING CHURCH.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'> I could go on-an-on, but I believe the meat of our journey has been presented in this blog, "Let's Go To The Circus" – Part 1. My purpose in writing and sharing with you is not in a superior attitude. For years, I was guilty of many of the atrocities listed above. Any satisfaction that was received, always left me hollow needing more. Bigger and better next time. More energy, uniqueness, difference etc. next to attract, (I mean minister to) the people. Take the time to reread the first paragraphs again. It may be painful, eye-opening, heart-rending and produce the brokenness we truly need. <br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'> I am tired of the Circus Band Wagon. I'm getting off. When will JESUS ever be enough for Ringmasters, Circuses, Performers, and Audiences? When will JESUS EVER BE ENOUGH to attract and keep people. Maybe we have gotten so used to attending and performing at the Circus, we are afraid to embrace HIM. For the satisfaction and euphoria we receive for ourselves in reality is IDOLATRY of the worst kind and nothing but 'wood, hay, and stubble'. As John Maxwell would say, "Just a thought".<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'> Don't let the excitement of 'Going to the Circus' cause you to miss out on intimacy with Abba Father and walking in the dust of the Rabbi – our Savior Jesus Christ in simplicity, reality, and intimacy. It is so much freer and better than 'The Circus'. I close with this thought: in the Indiana Jones Trilogy where Indiana is trying to choose the correct 'cup of Christ', (where just prior to that someone else chose the wrong one and suffered devastating, disastrous results), in his choosing the correct one the Knights Templar states, "You have chosen wisely". I admonish you, "choose wisely" Choose CHRIST over the CIRCUS. You will be more than glad you did.<br /></span></p><p style='text-align: justify'><span style='font-family:Arial; font-size:12pt'><strong><em>"Ladies and Gentlemen, Children of All Ages. Come One, Come All and Welcome to the Greatest Show On Earth!"<br /></em></strong></span></p></span>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-88800142502588119622010-01-29T13:59:00.001-08:002010-01-29T14:12:06.439-08:00Lessons On My Personal Journey<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZdEiudpavOcUv0G3I95eh8gG-ocGqX628kzLxCWl0fhIzDw2Mp_LkxZjkkKDOvBU2hWWtvCoXxtng3pvLg7M2oazdi61SCJ8-Nw-hH_LFN9jRH2UppsUw2uPGbjBfMYKygH-ADKXTLfA/s1600-h/100_7730.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432285897680596594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZdEiudpavOcUv0G3I95eh8gG-ocGqX628kzLxCWl0fhIzDw2Mp_LkxZjkkKDOvBU2hWWtvCoXxtng3pvLg7M2oazdi61SCJ8-Nw-hH_LFN9jRH2UppsUw2uPGbjBfMYKygH-ADKXTLfA/s320/100_7730.JPG" /></a><br /><div><span xmlns=""><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#3366ff;">This month I am more than pleased to share with you some tremendous insight from my oldest son, Matthew Souders. Matthew is almost 21, single (for all you girls out there), loves our Lord, and is active in Air Force ROTC.<br /></span></p><p><span style="color:#3366ff;"><br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#3366ff;">Matthew, a couple of years ago, attended a Discipleship Training School in Montana, and then later returned to work there for a year as an Intern. It was not only a time of growth in our Lord, but since his return to see what God has done in his life since then has far surpassed what a Dad could hope for. He like the rest of us have not "arrived" but we are <em>On The Journey </em>with our Lord Jesus Christ, daily.<br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="color:#3366ff;"><br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="color:#3366ff;"><span style="font-size:12;">A father hopes that his children will have a real, and vibrant relationship with our Abba Father and not just get 'caught up' in religious duty or function, <em>OR </em>just 'do church' which often becomes a substitute for <em>walking with God</em>. Matthew wrote this </span><span style="font-size:14;"><strong>Update Letter</strong></span></span><span style="font-size:12;color:#3366ff;"> to all his fellow interns as well as to current and former staff of Potter's Field Ranch. Matthew had no clue that when he was writing it that "Dad" would post his letter or even want to since it wasn't written for that reason. (It is done so with his permission, of course). I am very proud to share this with you (as I am thankful for <em>all </em>my children's walk with God and the <em>Lessons On The Journey </em>with God they are experiencing). It is my hope that as you read it, you will glean as much insight from the heart of a 'young man after God's own heart' as I have. Feel free to share it with others.<br /></span></span></p><br /><p><span style="color:#3366ff;"><br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#3366ff;"><strong>Lessons On The Journey,<br /></strong></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#3366ff;">Pastor Greg Souders<br /></span></p><br /><p><br /></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>[The Letter]:<br /></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">Hello everyone. Today I am going to break down my update into sections, yes that is right I said sections. So go ahead and grab a chair, take a bathroom break, get stretched, and grab a stress ball and get ready for stuff that most of us won't admit and that what might be my most straight forward letter that I have ever written. No I am not writing a depressing letter, just an honest letter about the following:</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">1. (EVERYONE) I'm NOT engaged!</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">2. Life since the Ranch</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">3. [Personal admonishments to individuals omitted in this posting]</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">4 [Personal admonishments to individuals omitted in this posting]</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">5. (EVERYONE) The Relationship God has always desire</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><br /><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong><span style="font-size:12;">1. (EVERYONE) I'm NOT engaged!</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></strong></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">As I said, I'm not engaged so there goes a lot of stress! Man, I must admit there are way too many of ya'll getting married. Ya'll are making a brother feel like I am doing something wrong. But God has put some amazing people in my life, both those whose walk is strong, those that are desiring a deeper relationship with Abba, and those whose walk are nowhere near where they need to be. And I thank Abba everyday for them, because, I can be real about what goes on in my life, I get the opportunity to be a light, to be a mentor, and still be a child sitting in Dad's lap just basking in His radiant love and presence.<br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>2. Life since the Ranch<br /></strong></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Since we last parted ways, I have begun attending college about an hour away from my home pursuing a degree in History. Sorry I love history for it truly shows just how amazing God is, and what a beautiful story He has and is writing. My main area of study would have to be the crusades, weird, but who said ya had to agree. Anyway, God provided me with a the chance to move into the dorm last semester to be an ROTC RA, translation, put up with freshman cadets who play way to many video games. But they are some really neat guys so hopefully they will begin to see Jesus in me the more I spend time with them, but I am going to just be real with them and admit when I err and when I am wrong and let them know where I stand. When I say real, some of ya'll are probably sitting there and reading this going what does this word "real" mean. In a nutshell, it the process of honestly admitting that I am a man who has encountered an awesome Savior, and is willing to admit that I don't have all the answers when it comes to questions and willing to admit that I sin just like everyone else.<br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong><span style="font-size:12;">5. (EVERYONE) The Relationship God has always desired</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></strong></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">I have learned that we often as followers of Jesus constantly put up this mask that says (sorry for the bluntness but its true) "SCREW OFF I AM DOING FINE" and we wonder why people don't find us compelling or willing to ask us the difficult questions. We have replaced the awesome relationship with Abba that we are given through Jesus, with religious function. We promote our church, our programs, our new ministry, our new pastor, building, children's church, youth group, social event, all for the sake of a new member instead of the person of Jesus and the relationship with Abba that He has given us. Why? I want an answer. Email me with an answer. It saddens me that we care more about a building that could burn to the ground in an instant than the people who desperately need Jesus and His saving grace.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">When reading the Bible, you will notice in the New Testament that Jesus has many encounters with the Pharisees and we always sit there and say yeah get 'em Jesus, but we never stop to really look at these men that Jesus often reached out to. Pharisees at the time, were the best theologians in their time, they observed every holiday, tried their best appear holier than thou, and always had an answer. But even with all this "righteousness" they believed they had obtained, Jesus still said they were like white washed tombs with dead men's bones on the inside. We read this and wonder what did this mean, Jesus was simply telling them, you cannot be good enough. Pharisees not being good enough? No one ever wonders what must the Pharisees thought when they heard this...I imagine them saying "I can't be good enough, does Jesus know who I am? I attend the temple every Sunday morning, Sunday night, Monday night Bible Study, Tuesday night Evangelism class, Wednesday night service, Thursday night church bingo, Friday night youth/college group, plus I have memorized the entire Bible cover to cover in original Greek, Hebrew, Latin and Spanish and French, and English on top of daily devotions and prayers everyday of the week 24/7. ME NOT GOOD ENOUGH?"<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Why, you ask did I mention the Pharisees, because that is what we have become.!!!!!!!!!!. We have turned the awesome relationship that we have with God the Father and instead have traded it in for religious functions, jargin, and motions just to check off our Jesus box for the day or week. But if I were to ask everyone right now over the phone (which ya'll never answer, and yes I have called) I can guarantee that not a single person can tell me what their respected pastor's life changing message was 1 month ago, 2 weeks ago, or even last Sunday in detail without notes. Why? Because it has become function/habitual just soak in week after week after week of 104 life changing messages that apparently mean nothing to you or most of our brothers and sisters in Christ. I am in the same boat. I'm tired of religious games that we play with God, instead I am trading in all my religious functionality, games, religious jargon, for relationship with an awesome Savior and my Heavenly Father.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">And just because I read a couple of ya'lls recent letters, we are in 24/7 ministry. And that is regardless of the building we are in. Example: A Navy Seal does not stop being a seal when he clocks out at the end of his shift, he is always a seal and will answer the call when and if it comes while he is "off the clock" there is never a rest period. What is it that makes us think that we have to be in a church building or organization to do ministry? I don't stop studying for a class just because the class is dismissed, I constantly am studying so that I will be prepared when I go back to class. Again why do we think that our ministry starts at 0800-1700hours/5days a week?<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><br /></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">Simply my challenge for everyone is right now to open your bibles to John 17:3-26. Read it . Learn/UNDERSTAND it and then apply it. For when we realize that our first priority as dearly loved children of God is to know intimately Abba, abiding in Him, it makes life all the more worthwhile living for Him unto Him that Jesus might receive glory. Even if I never attend another church service, college group, and I am stranded on a desert isle with a volleyball named Wilson, my relationship with God will never diminish or change, it can only grow closer and more intimately and more deeply in love, sitting in Abba's lap just knowing the deep love he has for each and every one of us is worth all time and energy I can produce. That my beloved brothers and sisters is worth it all. If you don't like what I have had to say, tough, I said I would be honest. If you are that offended by it, call me I'm not afraid to answer, because I love each and everyone deeply. If you don't have my number it is at the bottom.</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><br /><p><br /></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">For those of you who are getting married, CONGRATULATIONS! I am sorry that I cannot at this time attend a lot of ya'll know that my prayers and blessings of happiness and joy and long life are with you and that I look forward to the day when I see each one of you face to face.</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><br /><p><br /></p><br /><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">Learning to simply trust and learning what it means to be loved by Abba,</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">Matthew Gregory Souders</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size:12;">John 17:3</span><span style="font-size:10;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><a href="mailto:matthewsouders@yahoo.com">matthewsouders@yahoo.com</a><br /></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">[Cell phone number not published for blog]<br /></span></p></span></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-91788453441496291072009-11-05T10:51:00.001-08:002009-11-05T11:16:22.359-08:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgM5FTsYQDmlYCh8PKecSG1yxZmpWFfx7hyphenhyphengdGErZgHQ-gRIJQiNLk09OPLh3xz1_l3ltDXmwE71W2sbu9XF_HEoO-RmASH_8yLfL4ZllehyfqZvAYCM6doPWbiuJyP0adqg9kzytIvSDI/s1600-h/Human+Jumping+Hoop+-+2.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 123px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400697238727342162" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgM5FTsYQDmlYCh8PKecSG1yxZmpWFfx7hyphenhyphengdGErZgHQ-gRIJQiNLk09OPLh3xz1_l3ltDXmwE71W2sbu9XF_HEoO-RmASH_8yLfL4ZllehyfqZvAYCM6doPWbiuJyP0adqg9kzytIvSDI/s200/Human+Jumping+Hoop+-+2.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXUzo5Gq5pr7xT4RYvJXhRmNV8aMWjE1hUREP0aLfQ2jT6lwpIG9RWznRzUkYyL0M6IsSoyMA4sFfem8V2CrraQeOlCmj5GzoYTq-bingKoUrntfV72hBlaLY6I6mHq45u0sswxTkwe-c/s1600-h/Human+Jumping+Hoop+-+2.jpg"></a><br /><div><div><span xmlns=""><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>"RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONAL ACCEPTANCE KITS"<em><br /></p></em></strong></span><br /><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#0070c0;"><em>"Well good morning! We are excited that you are here today and we want to take a moment and tell you how blessed we are that you have chosen to become a part of our <strong>'religious organization'.</strong> While you are with us, and we <strong>do</strong> hope that yours will be a <strong>very productive and lifetime commitment</strong>, and in order to help assure that it will be so, we want to present to you our very own <strong>Religious Institution Acceptance KIT...</strong> This kit is specifically designed so we can avoid any misunderstandings, as well as any conflicts that may arise from your <strong>not understanding how we do things here</strong>. So take a moment, open it up, and become familiar with its contents as we begin this wonderful <strong>Religious Journey</strong> together.<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Religious Institutional Acceptance Kits: </strong>Every Institution, Organization, and Group has them. Now, we don't call them that. And in reality, they may not even 'tangibly' exist. But they <em>ARE </em>there. And if we are going to "be accepted", "fit in", or "to be an integral part of <em>that</em> particular T.E.A.M.", etc. (and we <em>all </em>want to be accepted and feel that we are a 'wanted' and essential part of an organization) – then there are some things that are <em>expected </em>of us. Things the Organization <em>expects </em>us to do Sacrifices to be make, Investments to be made, and Services to be performed – and since <em>we </em>want to <em>be a part of what GOD is doing, </em>we will embrace these. And in doing so, we will fail to realize that we are simply a 'cog' in the machinery of The Organization's Visions, Goals, and definition of Success. In our hearts, what we are doing, we are doing <em>unto and for our Lord. </em>But in actuality, we are an expendable. For in The Organization, <em>the smoothness of how the machinery runs </em>will <em>always </em>take precedence over Relationships. Therefore, in order for us to best meet The Organization's needs, we are presented (what I am calling for this blog) our very own "RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONAL ACCEPTANCE KIT" which is 'given' to us when we become a part of an Organization.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Re: The Religious Institutional Acceptance Kit: </strong>Now we may not actually "label or call" it that, we may not even <em>openly </em>acknowledge it, or even want to admit it that it exits, but it <em>IS </em>there. Every 'group' has one, and each one manifests itself in various ways with different emphases. Just know this, however it 'plays out' for our group and in our life, it <em>IS </em>there – very real, ever controlling – it is our standard of operandi, our level for acceptance by which you 'stay <em>a member in good standing.'</em><br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">As you officially or unofficially 'become a part of / join' our "group, fellowship, church, institution, home group, body, etc.' depending on whether we as a group mandate a form of 'membership' or promote a 'non-membership' system and even though that in itself may not be official, we still operate by the same guidelines and standards as those who require a membership though it may manifest itself in different ways. Either way, you are given what we are calling a "KIT". What does the 'KIT' consist of? Each one is different, but the essential ingredients are the same.<br /></span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">The following "items" are found as staple items in most "OFFICIAL RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONAL ACCEPTANCE KITS". Their names may change from group-to-group, but the ideas are the same. They are:<br /></span></p><ul style="MARGIN-LEFT: 72pt"><li><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>The HOOP:</strong> In our kit we lovingly find a "HOOP". Not necessarily a "Hula Hoop", but the "Hoop that a dog jumps through"<br /></span></div><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">The Hoop is a very special item because it is what The Organization has decided that you must know regarding their "Five W's". You see, to <em>be a part of our particular group </em>there are 'certain things' that you must embrace in order to "FIT IN". And with the HOOP, it lets you know 'The W's' to jump through'.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">The following tells us WHAT KIND of HOOPS there are, and WHAT each one EMPHASIZES.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>(1). The HOOP of 'WHAT'</strong> – This Hoop that tells you what The Organization expects you to DO, <strong>(2). The HOOP of 'WHERE'</strong> - Where The Organization expects you to focus your Energies, Time, Efforts, and Resources on. This Hoop also covers 'Where you Can & Cannot GO, and the Where of What you Can & Can't DO, <strong>(3). The HOOP of WHO</strong> – Who you are to please and do it for (These guidelines and restrictions are "set" at the desires of the Leadership, and to be done <em>for</em><br /><em>the glory of the Lord. </em>The better you do so, the more you will be ACCEPTED and REWARDED. <strong>(4). The HOOP of WHEN</strong> – This Hoop tells you WHEN The Organization expects you to DO it. You see, even though you may 'serve the Lord' at other times, to be <em>accepted</em>, to be considered <em>faithful, </em>you <em>MUST </em>make sure that you perform your duties and deeds at the specified times The Organization has set aside for such endeavors. And lastly, <strong>(5). The HOOP of WHY </strong>– This Hoop gives you the 'WHY'S' to do it (whether that is because of Traditions, Visions & Goals of the Organization / Institution Agendas, Desires of the Leadership, etc.). You see, as an Organization we will tell you about <em>God's unconditional love</em>, but you will find it is only as (a). LONG AS YOU JUMP THROUGH OUR HOOPS, and (b) <em>how often</em> we NEED and EXPECT you to, that you actually <em>experience </em>that 'unconditional love' from us. After all, you must realize that it is The Organization that has <em>set the bar </em>regarding what they believe to be the LEVEL you must achieve in order to meet their standard of what they determine as "faithfulness" in order to best meets the needs of the Organization).<br /></span></p></li></ul><ul style="MARGIN-LEFT: 72pt"><li><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>The HOOK:</strong> Now <em>this </em>is an important and essential item. A HOOK is The Organization's <strong>hidden, personal, and ulterior agenda / motives. </strong>What do we mean?<br /></span></div><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Let's go fishing. We drop an attractive lure into the water to attract and entice a fish. The Lure LOOKS HARMLESS and ENTICING. Not all Lures are the <em>same. </em>You see, there are NUMEROUS LURES of various SHAPES, SIZES, COLORS, DESIGNS, etc., all with the specific purpose of drawing the attention of certain fish to certain needs. But BE WARNED - with every Lure is a HOOK.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Imbedded somewhere within or under each Lure, is a HOOK. And here is something else; the Lure is in reality <em>NEVER </em>for the fish! They "think" it is, but in reality, it is not. The Lure with a HOOK is for THE FISHERMAN. The Lure is just designed to draws the fish to the fisherman either for Consumption, Trophy, or Statistic. The Fisherman uses a Lure with a HIDDEN HOOK DESIGNED to sink its deadly barb into the fish where it cannot get away. To "HOOK" you, as the old saying goes, <em>"hook, line, and sinker"</em>.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">The goal of the Fisherman (as well as most Organizations) is to attract you to <em>them </em>without you (1) ever detecting the "hook" and (2) without you realizing that you were ever 'hooked'. The HOOK is there so The Organization can CAPTURE and MANIPULATE you into getting you to do what they want you to do for them. And the scary part is you <em>CAN</em> be HOOKED. All The Organization has to do is find your 'BUTTON' (it can be the need of feeling needed, important, not appreciated at your current Organization, the promise of power, etc.). And then the Organization will present 'whatever it takes' (The LURE) to draw and capture your attention, your deepest longings, and your greatest needs, to 'get you' (HOOKED) to become another 'fish' in their tank, trophy on their 'wall', etc.<br /></span></p></li></ul><ul style="MARGIN-LEFT: 72pt"><li><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>COOKIE CUTTER & BOX:</strong> Now these are <em>wonderful</em> devices for accomplishing an Organization's agenda. You see, in a Religious Institution, there is actually NO ROOM for the following: "Asking Questions, Presenting Differences of Opinion, Having conflicting Beliefs or Goals, or even Expressing Thoughts or Ideas of Change, etc." When any of these are allowed, it prevents an Organization to run efficiently and smoothly. Allowing them 'throws a clog' in the machinery upsetting the desired production.<br /></span></div><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">You see, a COOKIE CUTTER is designed and implemented to keep The Organization running as a well oiled machine. In using this device, it will slowly 'brainwash' it's members to "separate themselves and shun anyone" who does not FIT INTO THE COOKIE CUTTER MOLD that The Organization has established for itself. The COOKIE CUTTER is designed for the PURPOSE of MAKING AN INSTITUTION "CORRECTLY" – even at the expense of RELATIONSHIPS.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">In an Institution, Relationships are in reality "secondary", the "Organization" is <em>primary.</em> If The Organization can instill within you the NECESSITY and NEED for "the organization to run right' no matter 'what the cost', <em>then everything will be fine</em>, because that it the way it's supposed to be! And the Organization WILL run right, as a FACTORY, not as a FAMILY.<br /></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">That is why a COOKIE CUTTER is included in each KIT. This device gives you the MOLD TO FIT IN to The Religious Organization's BOX. You see, if in the Organization / Club / Group, etc. we are ALL THE SAME (just the way the leadership wants), <strong>we can fit a larger number of productive cookies into the BOX (e.g. "four walls").</strong> The Organization's mission statement in reality is: "If YOU ARE NOT IN <em>OUR </em>BOX, you are <em>NOT </em>"IN THE RIGHT and BEST BOX that GOD IS BLESSING'!"<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">And The Organization wants 'EVERYONE' to be in THEIR BOX – to be accepted as part of their 'group'. As long as you: THINK like they do (without questions or variance), as long as you TALK the way they do, PRAY the same way they do, WORSHIP the way they do, OPERATE the way they do, EMPASIZE the "RIGHT STUFF", hold to the same POLITICAL VIEWS that they do, and DO THE THINGS they do, you will always FIT into their COOKIE CUTTER MOLD and BE A WELCOMED PART of The Organization / Institution. However, be warned; step outside the established mold of the Cookie Cutter standard that has been established, for <em>any reason</em>, continue to question and ask 'Why?', express a different viewpoint, or point out problems that are not being addressed, and you will 'stand out'. In doing so, you will now become the object of attack and receive rejection, rebuke, and disgust from the very Organization that you once so blindly and faithfully served.<br /></span></p></li></ul><ul style="MARGIN-LEFT: 72pt"><li><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>THE LIST RULE BOOK:</strong> This is the established "Rules & Regulations" (both written and unwritten) of The Organization's MODE OF OPERANDI'. The "THINGS" you are allowed <em>TO DO </em>and <em>NOT TO DO. </em>Now, it <em>is</em> true that in an Organization there <em>MUST BE </em>a 'Robert's Rules of Order', etc. Without them, you will 'LOSE CONTORL'.<br /></span></div><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">So remember, <em>don't ever question </em>them. They come from those who "know best" and are 'more spiritual' in these various matters than you are. Just accept them <em>by faith </em>as <em>from the Lord. </em>Trust your leadership <em>blindly. </em>It doesn't matter if this LIST OF RULES is founded on Preferences, Traditions, Old Testament Law, Movement Mandates, or things that have been 'passed down' for many years. It even doesn't matter if they have <em>no </em>Scriptural foundation. You may never understand the reasoning of WHY you are doing something but that's okay. Just don't ever dare QUESTION! Because it really doesn't matter <em>WHY</em>, just DO THEM and you will be fine.<br /></span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong></strong></span></p></li><li><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Personal Note: </strong>Even though this has become the 'NORM' among Christianity in America, and for much of the world; it doesn't make it "right". And even though many of our Churches & Fellowships operate more on Principles that resemble a Guidebook for Worldly Success, than a Biblical guideline or structure; the 'ends never justify the means'. And even though the above tends to produce a Disjointed, Stereotypical, Lopsided Body of Christ, with no room or need for the Biblical essentials of: (1). Agape Love (after all it is "easy" to love those who think, act, and do just what we do), (2). Grace applied to others, or for (3). God to direct our lives and fellowship (because in actuality we have developed a SYSTEM that operates on a FORM OF SPIRITUALITY THAT WE HAVE ESTABLISHED; you see, we have found that we can run our organizations more effectively, stream-lined, efficient, and successful by putting into place the above few items enabling us to accomplish much more with bigger numbers, better programs, larger successes, more polished events, etc.. We really don't need God because by applying the SUCCESS PRINCIPLES of today, we have produced a nicely oiled and well run Organization that is easier to handle than having to deal with a Living, Vibrant Organism, much well a 'FAMILY'. Let it never be forgotten that: <span style="color:#0070c0;"><strong>Religion is always easier to control and operate effectively than Relationships.<br /></strong></span></span><br /></p></li></ul><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">The Problem is, once The Organization presents this 'KIT' to you with all sincerity, fervor and what they believe to be 'honest, holy' reasons, what they have done, perhaps without realizing it, they have inadvertently now<strong> taken our Focus and Passion OFF OF JESUS and redirected it towards The Organization's Programs, Personalities, Buildings, Meetings, Salaries, in other words, The Institution, itself. </strong>The Organization has now taken the <em>simple JOY of loving Jesus</em>, of experiencing the intimacy of the Abba Father relationship, and of daily walking by faith in "the dust of The Rabbi", and enjoying the daily worship of Him, and has subtly redirected your time, resources, efforts, energy, and emphasis and replaced it with satisfying the Goals, Vision, and accomplishing the Success of The Institution (numerically, financially, structurally, etc.). The Organization many times has also convinced you that you must rely on the Institution for direction, dependence, duty, and even for understanding.<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>AND… What The Organization has to now do is convince you that serving THEIR particular Institution is the same as serving Jesus.<br /></strong></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">It <em>IS </em>possible that you 'can' actually love and serve God within an Official gathering of believers and / or an Institution. However, we are finding that that is rare. Why? Look at the fruit. If The Organization does not convince you that THEIR Organization is THE BEST anywhere (though they may never 'say it openly') – If they don't CONVINCE you of the importance of supporting financially THEIR SPECIFIC Location, if they don't capture your energy and direct it toward their Programs and People, <strong><em>then there is a REAL CHANCE that you may: </em></strong>(1). Slow down and evaluate all that you are doing, and evaluate <em>just how tired </em>you have really become, (2). Begin to QUESTION the effectiveness of what you are doing and why (real motive), and if Christ is REALLY being glorified and proclaimed from our hearts, minds, souls, lives, and lips, or the emphasis is really on our Organization / Own Kingdom, (3). Begin to ask "WHY" is there such a 'SPIRIT OF COMPETITION' among God's people (other Brothers and Sisters in Christ, those gathering to worship in other places, at different or the same time), (4). You may leave your current Organization and be LURED and HOOKED by another Organizational Fisherman somewhere else that will now be the recipient of your Time, Talents, and Treasures. Or (5). Just realize how tired you really are and want to "flush it all" to embrace the simplicity and intimacy of walking with Christ and Abba Father instead of an Organization.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">You see, in <em>Matthew 11:28-30, </em>when Jesus said, <em>"Come unto Me all you who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest, Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light." </em>This was (and still is) refreshing living water offered to a Creation by the Creator to religiously obligated, tired people who had <em>missed it. </em>People who in all sincerity were trying to please God – offered to the most religious group of people in existence – God's chosen people Israel, who had become encumbered with 630 laws and the Traditions of Men. A system that had left them hopeless, lifeless, worn out, tired, frustrated, and dare we say it" RELIGIOUS.<br /></span></p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Notice with me a moment just a few of the things our Lord emphasized; <em>"Come unto ME </em>(not a building, organization, temple, structure, a list of Rules & Regulations, etc., but a PERSON – Incarnate Agape Love) <em>and I will give you REST </em>(rest from what? Trying to please God by being religious –by trying to live up to a religious organization's control. TRUE REST – resting 100% upon HIM) <em>for your souls. </em>And how about; <em>For MY yoke is EASY and MY burden is LIGHT </em>(that is what the Book of Galatians is all about, as well as the entire New Testament).<strong><br /></strong><em>Take MY yoke upon you and LEARN OF ME </em>(not an organization, institution, etc.). We are so guilty of offering a 'salvation by grace through faith – a free gift' and then piling a load of religion on them <span style="color:#0070c0;"><strong>instead of teaching them to walk with a PERSON. In the Organization we promote RELIGION instead of RELATIONSHIP. <span style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline"><br /></span></strong></span></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Jesus did not come to establish religious institutions. In fact, His emphasis was on Relationships instead of Meetings. Jesus came in order to bring us back into right relationship with Abba Father through what He did for us at the Cross. To enjoy first, intimate relationship with God, and then with each other. Very little "permanent life change" comes from Weekly Sermons / Teachings, gatherings, meetings, programs, skits, classes, revivals, studies, etc. These things don't really work, and yet The Organization continues to perpetuate a SYSTEM that is in reality INEFFECTIVE. We are not saying that these don't have their place in the Body of Christ. Just probably but not in the abundance and importance that we have placed upon them. We keep promoting a "system" that is 'not' meeting the needs of Christians nor producing true life-change. But we have 'brainwashed' Christians for the last several hundred years that what we are currently doing is 'how' it is supposed to be done.<br /></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Let me close this out. Bottom line, let's ask <em>THE </em>Question about the subject we started with…<br /></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>Do The 'KITS' work? </strong>If you've continued this far in this blog, please <em>make sure </em>you read the following. Where <em>THE </em>bottom line for us is will we continue blindly repeating what we have been doing for most of our lives with ever stopping to muster the courage to look <em>deep inside ourselves </em>at our TRUE MOTIVES and <em>really </em>QUESTION.<em><br /></em>To question: (1). <em>WHY </em>am I <em>really </em>doing what I am doing? (2). <em>WHO </em>am I <em>really </em>serving and walking with? and (3). <em>WHERE </em>is the glory <em>really </em>going?<br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">Because whether we want to 'admit' the 'KITS' are <em>real </em>or not, they <em>are </em>– and worst of <em>all, <strong>sadly they do work</strong>. </em>That is why RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATIONS use them. <em>What do we mean?<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>First of all</strong><em>, we are expending the majority of our</em> ENERGY and TIME in <em>making the Organization successful – </em>and in the 'long run', we have <em>very little time </em>to spend with Abba Father, our families, or even in the community which we are trying to reach. <strong>Second of all</strong>, it is evident in our SPEECH. You see, it doesn't matter how much we talk about Jesus Christ <em>within </em>our Organizations (though true, He <em>should</em> be the motive and focus of all that we are doing). But in the <em>"club setting", </em>it is <em>expected</em> that HE should be the topic of our conversations. But the <strong>real test </strong>is <em>outside </em>our "four walls". Out in the <em>real </em>world. The Scripture says, <em>"Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks". </em>And what we need to ask ourselves is <em>"What is coming out of MY mouth? What am I constantly and consistently talking about? Do I talk more about my Church, Organization, Group, etc. than I do Jesus Christ, my Savior? Which is really more natural for me? What is truly in MY heart?"<br /></em></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;">THAT is the 'KIT'S' <em>real </em>fruit? <strong><em>What we talk about THE MOST to other Christians and lost friends is NOT ABOUT JESUS, but about our Organizations, Programs, Events, Buildings / Facilities, Leadership, Music, Websites, Promotions, Commercials, Classes, Meetings, etc. – in essence our <span style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline">OWN</span> KINGDOMS. SADLY WE TALK VERY LITTLE, IF AT ALL, ABOUT OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST. </em></strong><br /></span></p><br /><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;"><strong>The 'KITS' have worked.</strong> They have taken our FOCUS off of THE PERSON, JESUS CHRIST and HIS KINGDOM, and placed it on THE ORGANIZATION, THE INSTITUTIONAL CHURCH, and OUR OWN KINGDOMS. <strong>People <em>outside the church walls </em>very r<em>arely, if ever </em>hear us talk about Jesus.</strong> We can <em>say </em>we love Him with all our hearts, but if He <em>rarely </em>crosses our lips, without a HOOK of trying to proselyte or recruit people to our Organization, then it <em>is </em>true… <strong><em>"Out of the abundance of our hearts, our mouth (our KIT) IS speaking."<br /></em></strong></span></p><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:12;color:#0070c0;"><em>"Well good morning! We are excited that you are here today and we want to take a moment and tell you how blessed we are that you have chosen to become a part of our <strong>'religious organization'.</strong> While you are with us, and we <strong>do</strong> hope that yours will be a <strong>very productive and lifetime commitment</strong>, and in order to help assure that it will be so, we want to present to you our very own <strong>Religious Institution Acceptance KIT...</strong><br /></em></span></p></span></div></div></div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6977523759213425324.post-36587967516167680232009-09-08T09:45:00.000-07:002009-09-08T10:05:24.514-07:00Come To Our Church...<div align="justify">"This week in "Thomasville" (or fill in your own city location), we would like you to join us at ________________. Join our Facebook page. Watch our Commercials. Come to our Meetings. Visit our ____________, Etc., etc., etc."<br /><br />For most of us, when we INVITE you to ‘CHURCH’, in doing so, we are inviting you with the hopes that you will become a ‘special member’ of what we believe to be<em> the</em> best fellowship / church / home group in the area. Though we won’t tell you, we do believe that if you attend somewhere else, you will miss out on THE best entertainment / performance / presentation / group gathering over all the others in the area because of our special speaker, type of presentation, variety, choice and presentation of music, drama / skits, the times we meet, location, facility, and the clientele we represent.<br /><br />In fact, in order to recruit you to ‘our location’, we will do whatever it takes. We will BEG you, BUFFET you, BERATE you, WOO you, MANIPULATE you, SHAME you, TRICK you, in reality, we will use every SALES GIMMICK at our disposal, <em>all in the name of God</em> to GET YOU / HOOK YOU to join our KINGDOM / CHURCH / FELLOWSHIP / LOCATION / INSTITUTION / CAUSE.<br /><br />But in reality, and we do it <em>all in the name of Christianity and for His glory</em>, know that if you are already active in another church-type setting, know that 90% of our efforts and energy will be expended to “HOOK” you without you realizing what is going on. <br /><br />For some of us, we are proud, pharisaical, and naïve enough to actually believe WE <em>ARE </em>the best, have a CORNER ON THE MARKET SPIRITUALLY, and are A STEP ABOVE everyone else. <br /><br />And in our ZEAL we are kept BUSY because if we slow down and look too closely at what we are <em>REALLY</em> doing, we might discover, expose, and reveal that our true hidden motive and intentions do <em>NOT</em> honor our Lord. Therefore, the more we DO, the BUSIER we are, the more FOCUSED on the GOAL / VISION of our Pastoral Team, the more we are BRAINWASHED into following our own RULES / REGULATIONS or jumping through HOOPS - that even with excitement, the more we believe God is pleased with us. AND if we can CONVERT you to OUR Kingdom / Movement / Location, you are now one more person with the ENERGY, RESOURCES, TIME, TALENTS, MONEY, and LISTS OF NAMES that we can USE in GETTING and RECRUITING others.<br /><br />You see, if we can MANIPULATE or PROSELYTE you over to our cause, it is in reality better for us. It gives us the sense of not only SPIRITUAL SUCCESS in greater numbers but FOOLING OURSELVES that GOD is blessing us because of it. And we CAN’T SLOW DOWN, because if we did, we would realize that even with ALL OUR PROGRAMS & EVENTS, and even though we present 52+ life-changing messages a year, most people in our FELLOWSHIP are not really changing – NOT REALLY. We are BUSY DOING without BEING. We have equated BUSYNESS with DISCIPLESHIP. We are in REALITY walking with the INSTITUTION which has become an IDOL instead of WALKING WITH GOD. We are LEARNING A LOT, but APPLYING VERY LITTLE. We can’t remember what we learned two weeks ago or are clueless regarding what God is speaking to us about today. But we do know, OUR WAY OF DOING IT is STILL THE BEST. Why? Just look at all the people!<br /><br />AND if we can CAJOLE you over to our area, that means MORE MONEY for us to OPERATE our RELIGIOUS INSTITUTION that we call The Church by providing MORE PEOPLE and MONEY to support our PROGRAMS, HIGHER SALARIES, and GREATER, NEWER FACILITIES. And if we are really good at it, you will never realize how we HOOKED you in the process, but simply made you feel A PART of our way of doing things and thinking. And as long as you JUMP THROUGH OUR HOOPS, GET INVOLVED, INVITE OTHERS, GIVE YOUR TIME, MONEY, and TALENTS, as long as you PERFORM and THINK as we do, you will always FEEL WELCOMED and A PART of our fellowship and church. Fail to do so, and we will WITHHOLD that which you so desparately want and seek.<br /><br />If you don’t know Christ, we don’t want to OFFEND anyone so you will PASSIVELY be a by-product of our investments of time and money. After all, it takes a LONG TIME to actually CARE about you and to not look at you as a NUMBER, STATISTIC, or NOTCH on our Spiritual Belts. And to be honest, as much as we <em>don’t </em>want you to go to hell, understand, if we expend most of our time and energy REACHING OUT TO YOU, over a period of time hopefully LEADING YOU TO THE LORD, think of the TIME it will take to get you PRIMED and TAUGHT to our WAY OF THINKING where you will GIVE FINANCIALLY to support our Institution. And if we EXPEND all that TIME & ENERGY on REACHING and DISCIPLING you, we may very well MISS all those other CHRISTIANS that some other INSTITUTION will “suck up” first.<br /><br />So understand, no matter what we DO, hear what we are <em>SAYING</em>, we REALLY DO CARE, but most of our effort <em>has to be</em> going after people who are already SHEEP. We can always FIND SOMETHING they are not happy with where they currently are, where we can play on that ‘sore’ and expose it, and strategically present to them THE REASON WHY they should leave where they are to COME JOIN US, where <em>WE </em>will be EVERYTHING THEY EVER NEED. And who knows, maybe when we GET THEM, somewhere in the process, you will be a friend of one of those individuals, and then they can INVITE YOU.<br /><br />We LIVE for our NEXT SERVICE. We LONG for our NEXT GATHERING. We are EXCITED about all that is going on where we WORSHIP as an INSTITUTION. We don’t call it that. But IT <em>IS</em> our FOCUS. Because in reality, 99% of what comes out of our mouths – the thing which we talk about the most is our CHURCH, <em>not</em> Jesus. We have EQUATED our SERVING THE INSTITUTION with the same thing as KNOWING, EXPERIENCING, and WALKING WITH God as our Abba Father. It is, <em>isn’t it?</em><br /><br />Maybe… just <em>maybe,</em> if we focused on the PERSON more than the PROGRAMS, <em>maybe</em> if we TALKED ABOUT the SAVIOR more than our SERVICES, <em>maybe</em> if we really LOVED ABBA FATHER more than our CHURCH BUILDINGS & PROGRAMS, <em>maybe</em> if people could see more OF HIM flowing out of our every pore and fiber of our being and lives, that comes from a passionate, intimate, REAL RELATIONSHIP instead of the RELIGIOUS MACHINE which we promote, <em>maybe</em> if we would start loving people ‘WITHOUT A HOOK’ WITHOUT ALTERIOR MOTIVES, <em>maybe</em> if we stopped discipling people to our Organization, and rather discipled them to an Abba Father who loves them unconditionally, then <em>maybe</em>, just <em>maybe</em>, those around us would SEE JESUS uncluttered from all our 'religious fluff', and <em>maybe </em>we would REALLY IMPACT and CHANGE the world GOD’S WAY, for HIS GLORY, as a BY-PRODUCT of KNOWING HIM.</div>Lessons On The Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10648267464363021270noreply@blogger.com1